my best friend has always told me every thing and lately ive been hearing things about her that shes told other people but she hasnt told me! i no this might sound childish but i love her as a sister and to find things out about her was hard 4 me because when i asked her she said she hasnt and none of the stuff were true i know shes lying because she told the other people herself??? what should i do??? dont no if i want 2 be friends with someone that lies to me!!!!
2006-10-31 03:55:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you think there might be a reason behind her telling you these lies, for example she might think so much of you and know you think a lot of her, that she might feel if she tells you the truth you would be dissapointed with her or something, maybe she loves you that much that the thought of dissapointing you is too hard for her.
If you are a true friend I think you should sit her down and confront her about it- get to the bottom of it- reassure her that she can tell you anything and that she doesnt need to lie, especially as it hurts you to find out she has lied.
I hope you can work through it as it would be a shame to loose a strong friendship like that.
2006-10-31 04:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Georgie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend (who's white ) dated a guy from trinidad (he's black). She fell pregnant and then split up from him. Her baby was born black and she tried to tell me she'd left him out in the sun too long ! Go figure. She forgot I took the same Human Biology courses as she did in Nursing College , Not to mention the common sense factor. Needless to say we are not friends anymore. So take heart you are not the only person who has had problems with friends.
2006-10-31 08:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by catdyer2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happen to be and my best friend and i realise that she was not a friend to me anymore so i cut her out i don't talk to her anymore sometimes i remember how close we were but for her lose ways and always lying and never knowing if she telling me the truth i jus couldn't handle that....
2006-10-31 04:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your believing these other people,maybe it's not your friend that's lying, just because you are best friends doesn't mean you have to tell each other everything, try and be patient with her she's maybe going through a rough patch
2006-10-31 05:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by grace k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was doing that it was not nice, but then agian some people can just be nasty, it must of hurt you to find this out. I would feel betrayed have a talk with her, maybe she is jealous of you.
2006-10-31 04:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get her and the people she told together and then just bring the subject up, if she's telling lies you'll see it in her face !.
2006-10-31 04:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by TwiceShyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be friends very long if you told eachother EVERYTHING. Don't worry about it, she probably just doesn't want to repeat things that may be hurtful or may harm your friendship.
2006-10-31 03:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. i have da same problem as u do. maybe u try to talk to her about this prob. perhaps she has something that she doesn't want to let u know.. so the best way i think.. u should try to talk to her in a nice way. hope it helps.. =)
2006-10-31 04:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty, plenty plenty, that is why i now have acquintences and no close friends. I have sucker printed on my forehead and decided i am much better off not being to close to anyone.
2006-10-31 04:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgotten what it was like to be that innocent.
"Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo" -H.G. Wells
2006-10-31 04:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋