well i m 16 yrs and i like a boy but don t know whether he likes me....but thats not problem. due to circumstances in school we both were teased by each other s name ( though none knew about my liking towards him) just like that and so we kinda start liking each other lesser day by day...now we don t even feel like looking at each other. now we n another boy got scholorship to australia ( only we 3 from city) n i don t know how to clear up or i d be alone n thewy two ll have a good time...................plz help............n that boy is really very nice n kind but only due to circumstances we had problem with each other......plz suggest wat to do.......................plzzz...
n i don t wanna know whether he likes me or not. i just wanna clear up things so that we become frds just frds so that we don t remain like strangers in a foreign country n don t feel alone because the other boy is seriously hopeless..... plz help
2006-10-31 03:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by strangerrrrrrrrrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
n yes i realise that we ll meet new people n make new friends but still .......... i wish to know how to clear up things .pls help me out.......plzzzzz
2006-10-31 04:12:11 · update #1
I have a wiered suggestion -b ut 100% workable.
Do one thing. The next time you meet him for a casual chat try to take the point to your college days and jokingly take him to the point wher your friends used to tease both of you.
Tell him how funny it was. Try to pretend as if you just took it as a prank by your friends. M sure he will also lauch with you ans take it as one of the jokes.
In this way 2 things will happen.
1. You both will have a new platform to start with.
2. You both will love to see each other smile and you will not realise how time passes. The gap between you 2 will disappear.
Best of luck for your scholarship. Do a good job.
cheers.
2006-10-31 06:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by zarar don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the problem U only facing every boy and girl who are the friends all are facing even I too face the same problem while I am at my college even the professor used to tease us like that that we all are in love with each other but we proved that we are friends its only in U that how U 2 are behaving wether U R friends are not dont worry about the others they will tell very well about U R friendship in the future plz continue U R friendship with him have a phone call have a email like that have a connection or touch with him.
2006-11-03 14:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..just talk when u guys r there..the people n circumstances which were cause of ur problem n tension wont be there..so just sort out the things..i agree its difficult as u'll feel a bit awkward..but then if he is nice as you said,i m sure even he'll b thinking like you..hope for the best n be prepared for the worst..dont expect anything but try ur level best to eliminate all the misunderstandings..all the best..
2006-11-03 05:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by pari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you'll talk to him & help him realize>>> that the people who did the teasing were behaving immaturely... & it doesn't mean you both can't be friends.
Those silly people aren't worth keeping you from being friends... or from having other friendships in the future.
If you allow people like that to influence your decision (a decision that caused you to not associate with one another), then you're allowing people to control your decisions concerning your future... so... both of you please, do yourselves a favor>>> don't allow their immature-behavior-decision to control your lives.
2006-10-31 04:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will meet new people who will feel as awkward as you when you get to Aus. Just be casual aquaintance with the two who are chosen to go also; your circle of friends will change and grow as you mature and venture into the world...good luck---
2006-10-31 04:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi pp guy have long previous in the process the comparable subject like yours i lived in a hostel in dehradoon with the aid of fact my childhood from my L.Kg to std.8 and now i m in delhi doing my bba and staying with my mothers and fathers. i felt and confronted the comparable such as you and it many times affected my analyze yet i slowly and progressively got here visiting it b,coz i had no person to help out....... yet do no longer enable it influence your self yet whilst u r particularly finding it complicated be frank and tell your mothers and fathers waht you desire in accordance to me wht u desire isn't your hostel however the existence u had there ,you in basic terms desire some area out of your mothers and fathers precise do no longer subject communicate on your mothers and fathers and additionally you will rather get what you desire, talk each thing you have on your ideas.
2016-10-03 03:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk with him about the situation and clear the air??
2006-11-01 14:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him out of his misery and take him on the bullet train!
2006-10-31 04:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋