My best Friend... has been abducted by aliens.
I dont know who they left in her place. sometimes she even looks
like some one else.(that would be the scowl she wares 80% of the time) I used to be her best friend,her hero,her "Domeboy". Now something makes her mad everyday.Why cant mountains be
mountians,and mole hills be mole hills. everythings mountians.
I want the love of my life back.I have been understanding and patint.Her anger makes me fee Depressed . Maybe its not ment to be?maybe i should give up???
2006-10-31 03:46:20 · 8 answers · asked by ronnie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is part of life for a woman. We can't help it, and we don't know how we will react to it. All women have different effects. She can go to the dr. for some treatment. BUT, the good thing is, she will get through it. It doesn't last forever. Her hormones are freaking out on her. Can you imagine how she feels having all of these hot and cold emotions from one moment to the other. It must be hell for her. Just be a good friend. In the end you can sit back and laugh about it. Maybe pick up a card for her and let her know you understand what she is going thru right now and that you still love her. Sometimes the smallest gestures mean the most. Don't give up!
2006-10-31 03:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 34, and am going through what they call surgical menopause and I have to say it is not easy to go through. I was so emotional and moody UNTIL I got on some hormones, I feel like I am back to normal, so maybe a bit of support for her and suggestions like a doctor who can prescribe some hormones to help balance her out. I mean unless you have gone through it please do not be so harsh IT SUCKS and it is not like we can control how we feel it is just a lack of much needed hormones. DON'T GIVE UP, HELP HER
2006-10-31 03:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cant help it. Growing up my mother got like that. You couldn't be in the same room as her. When I saw her coming I would go the other way. And then it occurred to me what was going on. She was going through menopause. Have your girl go to the doctor and get hormones for it. It will help a lot.
2006-10-31 03:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to try some herbal remedies that the drug store carries.... I did, and it made a world of difference. And though it's touch, try some understanding and love, this too will eventually pass.
2006-10-31 03:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Judith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to quit being such a jerk she's going through huge changes in her life you need to be supportive....it's a part of like just like getting your period and having babies it's what women go through and I'm sure by the age you are you should know this. so in short get over it and if not she's better off without you
2006-10-31 03:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to tell her how she is making you feel . i almost lost the love of my life cause i could not tell him that i loved him. i actually lost him for six months and he got engaged to someone else and if she would not have cheated on him we would not be together today but when he told me about her cheating on him i decided that it was time to tell him that we where meant to be toghether and that i love him alot and want to spend the rest of my life with him i wanted to tell him that before we broke up but didnt so please tell her how she makes you feel and if that doesnt change the way she treats it may just be time to move on
2006-10-31 03:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-31 03:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
research menopause. my husband the sweetheart that he is, did just that and it helped him learn to deal with my extreme highs, and the extreme lows.
2006-10-31 04:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋