I've moved to a new area and would love to make some new friends. im 19 so i dont go to school/college anymore and im finding it hard to meet new people. Im quite shy so id rather do something where i could relax and be myself. Any ideas?
2006-10-31 03:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by lilbex87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start a hobby so you can meet new people. like gymnastics, singing, or a sport!
2006-10-31 03:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Jayde♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As college/work plays a crucial part in social activity, you will naturally find it harder to meet new people if you do not perform them. If you do not have a job, I suggest getting one (Not just for the social interaction, but also for the money, of course!), and just try and be friendly and talk to everyone!
A tip that might help, is that people will be much more willing to make friends with you if YOU ask things about THEM, rather than you talking about yourself. If you ask people how they are, a bit of their life, about their favourite things, they will enjoy being around you more. Eventually, you will make friends, and then make friends with your friend's friends, and before you know it you wont know what to do with them all!
If you don't have a job, no worries - there are plenty of places you can bond with people. If you are like a lot of shy people, you won't like going out into bars and talking to strangers - your best bet would be to persue your interests. Find a club or society nearby that does something you enjoy, and get involved! Even if you dont enjoy the activity, the fact that you are around others can often be worth it.
Most importantly, don't try to be someone you're not. You've probably seen this loads of times, but people can tell when you're trying too hard! Just remember, 90% of people will like you if you're open and chatty and ask about them, even if you're completely crazy!
2006-10-31 03:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Aidan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if there are any local hobby groups or social clubs that you might like. If there are none around your area that you like, then you can make your own, adverstise it and see who joins!
Also if you are a person of faith you can meet new people at church, a synagogue or a mosque etc.
Also, if you're not already working, you can look for a job in a more social place where there is a lot of 'traffic' eg. a mall, bar, club, library, YMCA or gym, etc.
2006-10-31 03:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ideas for your to ponder...find the one that is a good fit for you. It's hard to meet people these days, I totally understand and have shittled down my social circle considerably over the last year or so....
Join a gym or fitness class.
Join a belly dancing class.
Get a job and hang out with co-workers after work.
Volunteer
2006-10-31 03:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try some local clubs. I have a male friend who has started salsa dancing and hes 19, he says its great fun and everyone has a giggle. Good luck, go out with the attitude of making new friends and talking to eveyone and you will soon be well known.
2006-10-31 03:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out from your local authority what evening activities take place in your area. These should range from evening classes to clubs for various games, sports and leisure.
Whatever you do, don't rely on chatting on the Net - you might make friends but you are unlikely to meet them.
2006-10-31 03:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by FontOfNoKnowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your interests and are there any clubs nearby that you can join? Are there any people you get on well with at work and could perhaps to arrange to meet socially?
Best thing is to get off Yahoo answers right now and get out and about!
Good luck
2006-10-31 03:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chris G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about get a job? You will meet new people there. You would have to work together which means you will be talking, therefore Making friends! x
2006-10-31 03:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do some voluntary work, like in a charity shop lots of people passing in and out all day, or try an evening class, gym,or try chatrooms on the net,
Good Luck
2006-10-31 05:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by grace k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you work? Maybe you could join a gym or a book club!
2006-10-31 03:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by DippyGirl78 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋