Why is fate drowning us, how do you change it?

Question

Love, relationships eventually evolve into one entitity (one person). My fiance has done alot of bad things in his life, and evolved out of his old patterns. Now I think karma is striking back and trying to well torture us, avenge itsself... really im not quite sure.

Life has become a daily misery and I frankly don't know how to live anymore. A year ago today we were happy, we were functioning... we had enough and we weren't greedy.

Now, now we have lost everything. I watched him fall... I watched him fall and become so angry and unhappy and I couldn't do anything about it. Now im beginning to fall as well.

We are loosing everything... we lost our jobs, our money, even a car last week... and our health. Everything is just dissapearing.

This needs to end and I don't know how to stop it, it's as if we don't love eachother anymore. We just push and pull all day until it just stops and we both give up. Everything is just so pointless. I can't make it stop.

Answer 1

This sounds like something I can relate to. My husband and I changed our ways, however, we still went through a lot because of our past. I felt like we were still being punished, and it went on and on for so long. However, we stayed together, we managed to build again. I know exactly how you feel, but if the both of you stay strong, then you can rebuild. We've lost our jobs, cars, etc as well, but we kept trying. Maybe this is a test of your character, to see if you will go back to the way things were when the money and everything was easy, or if you can stand the test to see if you are worthy of gaining everything back. Be patient, and also you and him can not beat each other up about this. You will fight, but try not to. Most of all, pray!!