This guy and I started seeing each other said we would only be friends with benifits. It has gone on now for 11 months and I am Falling for him hard!! He says that he cares and likes me alot.. So does he really or does he not want to lose his piece of ***. What does it mean when I guy say he likes you and cares but wont say he loves you?
Can you love someone that was just suppose to be friends with benifits?
2006-10-31 03:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by momof2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is scary but friends with benefits only lasts so long without it. Maybe you can ease into doing some other things like dinner and show out in public once in a while, see how that works.
2006-10-31 03:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a test you can give him.
ask him out to the movies or to somewhere to eat (a typical date sit. if he treats you like a gf then you knwo where he stands.)
If he treats you like one of the guys, then you also have an answer.
Tell him your feelings though. Ive had a FWB , and it want until I found someone else who I was serious about at the time that she let her feelings show. She was extremly hurt, and it affected
my relationship with the woman i broke the FWB for.
2006-10-31 11:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by ijustcamehere4freefood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, if he says he likes you that what it means. He either has another woman that he is in love with but the sex may not be all that good. Then again he could be using you to spice up the sex life with another person. Or he may be acting out a fantasy of his.
2006-10-31 11:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by kingjames1906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything could happen but you entered it as "friends" with benifits. So, I guess you are hurting yourself.
2006-10-31 11:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's true. you gotta face it.
If he really loved you he would have shown it to you, and he would have assured you he loves you.
Can you do sth in this direction, with this aim? You should try.
And look for other friends. That's it.
2006-10-31 11:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man buys the cow, when the milk is free. That was a stupid arrangement.
2006-10-31 11:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wont drink the koolaid it means he wants the original agreement to stand.
2006-10-31 11:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, make a committment or i'm done, if he doesn't then you know you were only good for fooling around with.
2006-10-31 11:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose him; your just his booty call..
2006-10-31 11:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Allen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you or maybe not
2006-10-31 11:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋