BABYMAMA DRAMA-IT SUX
my husband and I have been married 4 mos. his ex has his child, we live 500 miles apart but i still let her get under my skin. maybe its because I look forward to experiencing parenthood with him, and he has already been there done that. other than his past, he is the man for me. I love him more than anything, but his ex really drives me crazy. first of all she just filed for child support, she hasnt let my husband or i see that child in over a year. she prank callls us, she lies and says the kids in the hospital just so he will call her back, she tells us one day we can take her for a week adn the nest day he cant see her if i am around. I know it is just silly little mind games but i cant seem to deal with it. our relationship is going downhill because i am always unhappy and cant get this drama out of my mind...does anyone else know what it feels like? how do u cope?
2006-10-31 02:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by jerrnboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry about your luck, price you have to pay when you marry someone with an ex and a child. most adults do not know how to have or be functional parents. let it go and let your husband deal with it.
2006-10-31 02:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this cannot be easy on you nor your husband. I would suggest getting legal advise. If he's paying child support as a father, he has rights to see his child and speak to her. The ex needs to know that she cannot use that poor child as a pawn. Call a lawyer ASAP and get informed.
2006-10-31 12:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HONEY I JUST WANT TO CRY JUST BY HEARING UR STORY I GO THROUGH THE SAME BUT IF UR HUBBY DOESNT PUT HER IN HER PLACE THERE IS NOTHING THAT U CAN DO ABOUT IT I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUBBY FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS AND I HAVE PUT UP WITH IT BUT SERIOUSLY I AM NOW CONSIDERING DIVORCE B/C THOSE SAME PROBLEMS ALWAY GO THEN THEY COME BACK I JUST WISH THEY CAN LEAVE FOR GOOD AND NEVER NEVER NEVER COME BACK IF THAT EVER HAPPENED I KNOW THAT WE WOULD BE THE BEST FAMILY IN THE WORLD
2006-10-31 11:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋