2006-10-31 02:42:56 · 25 answers · asked by sameer j 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Since masturbation is usually the result of insecurity and inability to find positive things to do with your time it's control depends on using your time for better things. Look at what fantasies you use to get the job done and find ways to make those fantasies realities or get rid of them if they are twisted. It is true that masturbation gives you a sense of relief but it can also bring guilt feelings and make normal sexual activity harder to engage in because your performance may suffer.
Instead of doing it find another activity that gives your satisfaction to fill the time. The important thing is to look into what your thoughts are while doing it. Is there one person you focus on or one type of person?? Are the thoughts of normal sex or perverted. Those clues will help you gain better control.
2006-10-31 03:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Avoid steamy novels or porn mags, films etc. When do you normally have the urge? During those times engage in something that will take ur mind of it. If it is at night, get out of bed, pour some water over urself or have a snack. You can also engage in strenous exercises that releases the pent up feelings. But most of all pray, Dont think on the immediate relief of giving in, think of the after effects of guilt and shame. Remember masturbation concentrates on you, what youderive and feel and not on what you give. If you can control this then when love making comes you can concentrate too on giving pleasure not just receiving.
2006-10-31 10:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what the problem is here? Mastubating is a pretty normal thing for guy's or girl's. If you feel like this has started to happen too frequently then you need to see a mental health care proffesional. If you just don't like to do all the work I'd go with the guy who said find a girlfriend.
2006-10-31 10:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hang out with friends... so you can take your mind of it. And if you don't agree, then I just hope you are doing your masturbation privately at your own time... Good luck
2006-10-31 11:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a biological need. Why would you want to stop? If you feel you are obsessed with it. . .discuss it with a medical doctor. You shouldn't be surpressing those urges as far as I'm concerned.
2006-10-31 10:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Holly O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chew gum. Every time you think about something sexy, add another piece of gum into your mouth.
When your mouth is completely full, you are allowed to jerk it. Think of all that time you saved when you look at the gum wad.
Or go to www.fleshlight.com and just go nuts and be a pro.
See ya, I'm going to put all my money into gum stocks.
2006-10-31 18:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by judge_smails_sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a bet with your friends to see who can hold out the longest. The studio audience will laugh and laugh.
2006-10-31 10:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't take it too serious. I jerk off everyday but only cos my partner's drive is lower(shut up all you fecking goody two shoes). Choking the chicken is healthy and fun just don't rely on it and DON'T get caught.
2006-10-31 17:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by mememe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is natural and healthy - as long as you do it at appropriate times in appropriate places.
2006-10-31 10:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. There are only 2 types of people in the world. Those that do and those that lie about it. DON"T do it while driving.
2006-10-31 10:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋