When I was a little girl I would make out with my best friend Gloria. Her mom caught us one day. Time went by I never thought about this again. In high school I started feeling like I was having crushes on girlfriends but never acted on them. I've always only dated men. I've never dated a woman and don't think I would. But I have slept with a couple of women and enjoyed it very much. I have a boyfriend and over the weekend there was this super hot girl who was totally making eyes at me. It was turning me on. Does this make me bi? Or just bi curious?
2006-10-31 02:40:42 · 23 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Labels are useless and unimportant. Enjoy your life.
2006-10-31 02:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Given that you have had real experiences in making love to women and you find that you enjoy it and the fact that you also make with men, you are purely and simply Bi-Sexual. One who is Bi-Curious is one who dreams about it and has the feelings but has never acted on them beyond perhaps one experimental time.
Enjoy both sexes knowing none are ever forbidden from you, and be true to who at what you are in your heart of hearts. It is the truly the best way to be.
2006-10-31 11:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u enjoy being with both men and women its cool.Sexual attraction is different from love and i think u are sexually attracted to both women & men.It could be how you started with it whilst young and it had an impact on you.I use to do the same when i was a kid but once we got caught i stopped.Sometimes friends try to let me do it again and its really turns me on but i have to be strong and fight those temptations.You are not a bi" , its just sexual and i guess ladies know ladies better than men when it comes to love making.
2006-10-31 11:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were repressed when you were younger, but you've more than made up for it now. If you are attracted to women but sleep with men cause its deemed "socially acceptable", then that makes you a closet case. You never mentioned how you feel about men, whether they turn you on or not, only about ladies! That's kind of suspicious, don't you think? Be honest with yourself. Life is too short to sleep with the opposite sex if you are not sexually fulfilled by them. If you are satisfied by men, that makes you bisexual. This is perfectly normal,too. However, if you are in a long term relationship with your male friend, cheating on him is not the most responsible thing to do. Don't forget to practice safe sex. Good Luck and have fun!
2006-10-31 11:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opion a person that calls themselves "bi" is curious about both sexes. I feel we are born one way or the other ( gay or straight). you tell us you made out with girls at a young age and through high school you had crushes on other girls... you may want to talk to a proffesional about this if it starts to cause problems in your relationships with the ones you love throughout your life. As you become more mature and love yourself more you will decide for yourself what and who you want to be with. take each relationship you are in through life as they come, just be yourself and mot impotantly be honest with your partner , you don't have to tell them that your "bi" the first day you meet them but do tell them that you are curious and have slept with girls as the relationship progresses. Good luck with all of this and if nothing else "play safe"!!!
2006-10-31 10:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by rattagous70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bi and your boyfriend is a very lucky man. If you were curious you would be wondering what it was like and trying it out but you have done it an decided you like it !
2006-10-31 10:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, it makes you bisexual. Actually, you've not said much about how you feel towaeds your boyfriend. You need to really think about it for yourself.... If you are just with your boyfriend, because you feel 'normal'(as i did)- then you're a lesbian....If however, you do enjoy his company--sexually, then it makes you bisexual. No one can figure this out for you babe, its a journey you must discover for yourself.
I will say though--Its so fun sleeping with women. I simply adore a womans body, and was certainly hard work being with a man...
2006-10-31 15:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've slept with a couple of women you're not bi-curious, you're bi. What does it matter what you are; just take love where you find it.
2006-10-31 10:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety knwing that u have been with a woman , i would say bi... women turn u on just as much as men .. theres nothing wrong with that.. good for you for being into your sexuallity . many kuddos . never be ashamed of what ur or for whta u believe in... hope u find u a lil hottie lol
2006-10-31 10:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by txrkanawalls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are bi alright...you might think you are just a bi-curious because at a young age your mum cought you making out with another girl and you had to oppress your bi feelings...
you don't act on your feelings because deep down inside you think that making out with another girl will have negative consequences because of your earlier expericnce...
2006-10-31 10:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Zed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had sex with another woman you're probably bi. That's beyond curious! It's normal...more people are bi than they care to admit.
2006-10-31 10:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋