Getting My boyfriend to understand how I am feeling right now? I am 10 weeks pregnant, and he just doesn't get it. When Im cranky he tries to make jokes and just makes me feel worse. I have told him that motion makes me nauseas and he dances around in my face! I know he's not trying to be mean, but I just want him to be suportive.?
2006-10-31 02:22:25 · 8 answers · asked by lindsey9180@verizon.net 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just talk to him, makes sure he is really listening, no distractions like the tv, and just lay it on the line. Explain that you are gonna have mood swings, nausea, some major body changes and you are going to be wierd for the whole pregnancy, so he better adjust to it pretty quick!
Congratulations by the way!
2006-10-31 02:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to him..... its not easy growing a baby and the first 3 months are hard. Your body starts adjusting to a new life so you're tired, you're sick. Just let him know.... if that doesn't work tell him if he don't quit you will find a pregnant belly and make him wear one for 12 hours and see how he likes it. It would be nothing like what you're going through yet but he could what it will be like and maybe he'd understand.
2006-10-31 10:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he isn't being very supportive and quite frankly upsetting you and pissing you off for being that way. Tell him exactly how you feel and that he needs to grow up and try to understand that and be supportive of you. Tell him it's not about him so stop acting childish. Hopefully he'll come around. Good luck!
2006-10-31 10:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and explain everything to him. Tell him about it making you sick when he dances. The best way to get him to understand is communication. Hope it helps
2006-10-31 10:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go to parenting classes with you like Lamaze and birthing classes make him wear one of the funny belly's that some dads put on to see just how hard it is on your body and emotions! good luck sweety
2006-10-31 10:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal in this period of pregnancy that you feel bad ,he should understand this .
after a couple of weeks you will be better and he will be more responsible.
2006-10-31 10:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will never understand!!
2006-10-31 10:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i am sorry i cant help u with this one.
2006-10-31 10:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by greengrass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋