I have a g/f she always wanting to do something else, I skate for living and she wont even see one of my session or comps. I give her what she wants and all. But I love her to death. whats should I Do, Really need good tips for this situation.
2006-10-31 02:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by Michael R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let it go or explain to her how you feel. Otherwise, get ready to give in to her every command until she is ready to move on. You can't make everyone happy all the time.
2006-10-31 02:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little Picky? I say inconsiderate. Have you ever ask her why? I think you need to ask her why she had never gone to one of your sessions or comps. Ask her for an explanation (thats not wrong of you). Its ok to give her what she wants but you need to get some too. I mean its not all for her and non for you. A relationship is 50-50 not 05-95, it dont work that way. One day ur gonna get tired and that wont be a good thing.
2006-10-31 10:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't even take an interest in your work and passion of life, then is she worth it? Why is she not interested in you? Is it all about the sex?
Why not just say to her it would mean alot if she would watch you skate just once, she might get to liking it and come again.
She needs to know that relationships are a two way thing.
You could also deny her sex until she starts appreciating you more, however if she has a vibrator just give up
2006-10-31 10:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by profanitypeaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe skating doesn't ring her bell. If she adored speed-embroidery would you be enthusiastic about attending her competitions?
Accept that sometimes people have different interests, and if you love her that much you will understand.
2006-10-31 10:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is way too self absorbed. Do your thing and if she isn't supportive, drop her like a hot rock. This is a no win situation for you. Compromise and make yourself happy too.
2006-10-31 10:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by gagam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone to atleast see what you do and understand and someone who is willing to sacrifice a little lets say she needs to understand and be willing to see how you do for yourself
2006-10-31 10:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋