why do black men treat white women better then black women?

Question

why when black men are poor they are with a black women but when they have money they are with a white women?

Answer 1

This comes not with all Black men, but some have a complex, that having a white woman is sort of a "trophy thing." They also want to show off in the face of white society, rubbing it in their faces, so to speak. It is a byproduct of "sour grapes."

They haven't got over the old myth that white is better, so they are subconsciously trying to mingle their genes to lighten the skin colour, have offspring who won't be so dark. Yes, it makes no sense, but this kind of thing has gone on for centuries.

Answer 2

Why do dumb Black men get on T.V., blogs, YouTube, etc.. and say the stupidest things about Black Women? I don't understand it. There is not one Black Man on this planet who has met and certainly has not dated every single Black woman alive so why do you all make such dumb generalizations? The majority of Black people I know are married to other Black people and some treat each other good and some don't but the same could be said of some white couples too. Please stop generalizing and grow up.

Answer 3

I wonder what is your definition of 'money and success' for the people who responded. I hope you're not thinking athletes. A lot of athletes are not that bright, if any. Doesn't matter the color (hockey, NASCAR), athletes are just dumb. Basketball players get ripped off the most, they get chump change compared to what the endorsers and investors are making. Not very bright to let someone rip you off. Successful people don't allow themselves to be manipulated.

I think you need to stop watching MTV, pop culture, etc. Only a handful of White women who sleep with Blacks actually have the rich ones, yet even still get cheated on or beat up all the time. I think the medical bills or burial plots will eat up those riches mighty quick. The vast majority who live in the real world that sleep with Blacks live alone and raise their kids by themselves. Something NO woman or man wants for their daughter.

Answer 4

I know my sistas get upset about this sh!t but I have tell my sistas that I don't even sweat the madness! I also realize that a lot of sistas are not attracted to white men therefore you feel trapped by not being able to sometimes hold on to your brotha man. Oh girlfriends but I don't have such problems. To me all men are the same their &icks are just a different size and color. I've crossed the line plenty of times. Oh hell yes I've swirled. I hope these white women are not thinking in their minds that white men do not like black women because they would be shocked to find out just how many do. So sistas-----don't get mad-----get even! It's always been my philosphy in life and you know what, white men treat sistas better then black men. They're more of a gentlemen. They have more manners. Please I love my brothas don't get me wrong. But if they f*ck up! I'll go get a white man in a hearbeat and it pisses brothas off. That's what they get for not respecting us in the first place. Hell to be honest with you I don't want no man no matter what color he is if he doesn't treat his family good. Especially his mother. If you ever date a man that is disrespectful to his own mother, then his a*s isn't worth a fart in a blizzard! Enough said!

Answer 5

firstly...we need to understand that black men as a whole do not desire white women....there was a poll done several years ago by Essence magazine that surveyed black men and about 70% or so said that their ideal mate was in fact a black woman....note these men surveyed were career oriented....college educated...never married..or just average everyday brothers...


i can't be sure why black men marry white when they find success...but i can tell you they are not doing it in droves....anyway black athletes or entertainers perhaps marry white/non-black women to fit in.....or to prove that he isn't racist..some even have a complex about black women b/c ultimately the black women is a reflection of himself and vice versa...if the brother hates being black...why would he marry a black? i am not implying that all BM WF relationships are a product of a black man's self-hate...i am not saying these are certain reasons...but they are definitely something to think about when asking these questions.

Answer 6

Only famous black men that i know are taking white woman as their partners in life! Mostly I have seen..... not all poor blk men...but blue collar men are with white woman because there willing to but up with more B.S. then blk women are! That what it really boils down too. Then it could not be about the money at all! That may just be his preferences! He likes how she takes care of his needs!

Answer 7

That's a stereotype! I know many brothers who are doing very well and they are all with black women, except one is mixed with black and Chinese. I also know black men who don't have much money, and are with white women. I just think that, for some odd reason, when a brother has money, the person he is with or his significant other stands out more when she is white. Shoot, black men beat on black women just like they beat on white women. The same with white men. I'm a black/African-American female and could care less who dates who, as long as they are happy.

Answer 8

I think it because white women know a good thing when they see it and are will to go after the guy. while the black woman will keep on with the same old same old. No added aggression towards the guy. Look at athletes. there are some black girls that will be all over the star athletes but there are many white girls that go after them. and they do the same with white men too. Us men are stupid when it comes to girls. if you dont come get us will stay single or date each other or something. If you are a black girl and you want a "star" black man you have to step up your game. You have to show him that he is king and you are queen. So many time what we see is you are queen and we are somewhere below that.

Answer 9

I remember a conversation about this subject several years ago with some of my well-to-do African American colleagues...Apparently the general rule is that white women don't have as much "attitude" as African American women. According to my colleagues, African American women are more demanding, more stubborn, more jealous (THAT was a big one -- my one friend told me his last girlfriend didn't like him talking to any other woman on the planet, even at work) and just plain more difficult to get along with. Now, remember that these are African American men saying these things, and they did say that there are exceptions to the rule (one of them is married to an African American woman who is one of the sweetest women you would ever meet), so don't go bashing me for repeating what I was told...

Answer 10

I think that's who they're around mostly.