Please can I get some good advice on how these two signs can have a harmonius relationship?
2006-10-31 01:53:18 · 10 answers · asked by cutebeantree 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Thanks for the adive on love and not listening to star signs but if didnt want to know about the realtionship astrologically then I would never of asked this question would I?
Please can I have answers relating to the question thanks and not moralistic views.
2006-10-31 02:18:48 · update #1
Right maybe I should rephrase the question......
Astrollogicaly speaking how can the cancer female and the aries male use our traits to achieve a harmonius relationship seeing as, astrologically we are not suppossed to be a good match?
2006-10-31 03:27:31 · update #2
I am Cancer, My Lover is Aries
Sorry, but this tryst is going to be tough. You are the first water sign of the zodiac and therefore the most sensitive. Tenderness, care, warmth, and security are what you crave most; you bruise easily at the slightest criticism. Home and family are your biggest priorities, but, for your Aries lover, the creation of new enterprises gets top billing. Aries is the first of the fire signs, so Aries are noisy, brash, full of life and aggression, and not very tactful. If you argue with an Aries, he or she will do whatever it takes to win. If your feelings (and ego) are destroyed in the process, so be it. You will wind up feeling like you were hit by a heat-seeking missile. Aries can be ruthless and they frequently go overboard. To make matters worse, Cancers can hear insults when none have been spoken or intended.
There are more difficulties. You have delayed reactions, Cancer, while Aries are quick on the draw. You may not be able to parry and block during an argument as quickly as your Aries opponent, tearing down your self-esteem. Aries is nothing if not straightforward, but the Crab walks in a kind of zigzag pattern, prepared to quietly scuttle into and out of any subject. Aries find this deceptive and calculated. Cancers justify it by calling their actions subtle.
You want stability: in marriage, home life and children. But Aries need to keep their adrenaline pumping, and if romance doesn't stay hot, they are likely to look elsewhere for adventure. Sex is exciting with an Aries lover, especially in the beginning, but for Cancer this will not be enough. You want to be loved deeply for who you are and to forge an intimate bond that can't be harmed by the outside world. Self-absorbed Aries can't sit still long enough for this to happen. Soon you will feel that they are all fire but lacking in real warmth. Don't expect an Aries to nurture you -- they have better things to do. This will depress you, for you nurture everyone and expect the same in return.
You may stand a chance but you will need to work really hard on this relationship. If you don't want to pass up this creature, you might have your custom horoscope done and see if you have other compatible planets in common. We are only studying your Sun sign here, and there may be subtleties that your individual charts can reveal.
2006-10-31 04:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~NEO~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tread lightly. If you are a guy Aries, I would "almost" say don't waste your time. I'm a Leo and like Aries, we are adventurous (sp), spontaneous fire signs. Cancers, at least the ones that I have come into contact with, are very cautious, mundane (not every Cancer, of course, just generally speaking) homebodies that will eventually dampen your fire. But the good news is, everybody is different...so who knows. Go with your gut, that allways works best. Good luck with that!
2006-10-31 03:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by the_ahriginal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure you would get any straight answers, but all I can add is that I am Cancer and my husband is Cancer and we should not have had a good relationship, but I have now been married for over 33 years, and we also have a Cancerian son - all good in our household.
Depend on love and harmony will come - I promise.
2006-10-31 02:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the best match....two mature ppl can do anything
Cancer wants to stay home...the woman will try to go places with an Aries.. Hes an action sign
2006-10-31 04:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dad's aries and I'm cancer - not a match made in heaven - in our case! He used to drive me mad when I was younger. However, as I've got older I think I've got more tolerant (plus I don't live with parents any more) and I can put up with his noisy, selfish, borish ways now!
2006-10-31 20:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh crap,this is a bad combination,I'm a cancer female and i know enough about astrology to see this is a hell of a combination,good luck sweetie.
2006-10-31 20:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by karen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT !!!
been there and its not good, Aries are much too selfish for Cancer
2006-10-31 09:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on love not by the star sings. me and my boyfriend have opposite star signs and we have been together for 3 years now!!!
2006-10-31 01:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kirsty N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can read horoscopes but I think love and friendship is a special thing. do not depend on words from magazines. depend on real life issues, and what people say to you. good luck with life.
2006-10-31 01:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cant be done mate, tried it, worked at it , thankfully now got the decree nici phew that was ard work, but worth trying
2006-10-31 06:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by terry g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋