" is a feamale sexually abusing a man when she flirts or dresses sexually agianst his wishesv
we hear all the time of men sexually abusing women ie making them do sexual things against their wishes. SO is a female sexually abusing a man when she sexually flirts or dresses sexually intentionall trying to manipulate him into desiring her against his will- as a man we have all had the experience of being manipulated into desiring a women -IS THIS SEXUAL ABUSE
2006-10-31 01:46:26 · 45 answers · asked by gama g 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Dressing is hardly called sexual abuse. Women do not scream sexual abuse when a man is dressed "to turn someone on". Flirting on the other hand is trying to open an guys eyes towards a woman. You would say the same if you turned the tables. Men flirt with women are just trying to open their eyes to them. It's not sexual abuse. I don't even see how you could relate the two. When flirting men and women both have a chance to ignore it or get away from the situation. When sexual abuse is involved you do not have the chance to ignore or walk away from it. I do agree both men and women have encountered sexual abuse but I do not believe your statement is true.
Women will answer this question its just men who doesn't listen to our answers.
2006-10-31 01:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual abuse requires force and a denial. If a girl or guy does not say no at any point then there is no abuse. If there is no force and the girl or guy does not say no then there is no abuse.
A girl can dress however she wants and flirt all she wants with a man. That does not give him the right to assume that she wants sex. Men flirt with women all the time just to make themselves feel good. Why wouldn't women want to feel wanted as well?
It has often been claimed that a girl in a miniskirt is to blame for someone raping her, but that is not true. In fact, more girls are raped while wearing jeans than anything else.
Do not blame a girl for your being aroused. You are responsible for your actions and not the girl who looks sexy and flirts with you.
My wife did not like my looking at other girls. I explained to her that just because you plant flowers in your garden does not mean that you stop looking at your neighbor's flowers. Looking and touching are very different. Make sure that you are always aware of when touching is allowed and not allowed.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-31 01:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to go with no. Sexual abuse is forcefully making someone do something against their wishes by holding them down or touching them without their consent. Or manipulating a intoxicated or mentally challenged or minor person into doing sexual things. She's not touching you and you aren't in a state where you can't say no, so i would suggest leaving the situation, ie get out of the room, house or area.
2006-10-31 01:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Laterj1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ehm.. where is the actual question in your statement?
The why females...thingy? or the Is this sexual abuse?
I would like to answer the sexual abuse thingy...
Well if it was inteded to attract a person against his will then in a way its an abuse. Though attraction is self enflicted, it is based on desire if the person has poor descipline he "will be abused" if he has good sense of self controll of course he will not be abused, but the ends of the act satisfy both parties in this case there is no abuse.
All i can say is the Intended act is abusive by nature though the ends may not be.
For example, a mother is giving birth from an ectopic pregnancy, then both mother and father decided to abort pregnancy, then they commited abortion-murder of an innocent child, but if the intention was to save the mothers life and i"n the process" the life of another was lost then the act is justifiable as moral though the ends os horid.
2006-10-31 02:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by zheekuli 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutley not. You cannot compare the two, it's rediculous! Sexual abuse means being forced against your will to do something you don't want to do. Sorry men, you don't get to claim that your second head was manipulated. You have a brain, override the urge to hump anything that looks good.
Men can dress "sexy" and be flirtatious as well. It's a persons CHOICE if they want to procede beyond that. Unless of course, REAL sexual abuse occurs, like grabbing someone and throwing them on a bed, or slipping them a date rape pill.
2006-10-31 01:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by breannaat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
There is a big difference between forcing someone (by threats or violence) and between trying to win someone over with charm or looks or whatever.
When sexually abused, most women don't have the option of simply walking away or ignoring it.
The situation above is all about will power though, if you can keep the damned thing in your pants, then don't blame anyone else. You always have the option to ignore, no matter what the temptation.
Would you describe TV advertising as customer abuse - they are not forcing us to buy their products...
2006-10-31 01:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by HP 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you have women come up to you and do lap dances at you in the middle of the street in the middle of the day?
I don't know where you are hanging out buddy, but it's time you find someplace better.
Just in case your mommy never told you there are two types of women, those you marry and those you don't.
As a woman, I will tell you this....you can't have your cake and eat it too....make a choice and stick with the choice you make. Either way, you probably will find something to gripe about, but if you want a woman to stick by your side, I'd say avoid the temptresses.
2006-10-31 01:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.......
If a woman is wearing a short skirt with high heels and a cut off tee shirt with no bra is walking down the street, no, she is not sexually abusing anyone. Anyone can look, or look away. Now, take this same outfit and put it on your boss and she is throwing body parts in your face and putting you in situations where you cannot avoid here, that is sexual harassment. THIS IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR RAPING HER. But, it could be grounds for a lawsuit.
2006-10-31 01:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am definately a female, so your question is a bit odd, but you got my attention!
No, she may be TRYING to manipulate you, but it is up to you how you respond. It isnt sexual abuse toward you unless she is touching you. It could be construed as harrassment though. It depends on what setting you are talking about too. If it is job-related, it is harrassment. If it is your significant other, then you both need to work on some communication skills. I hope this helps clear things a bit for ya. :)
2006-10-31 01:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Travslady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a ridiculously biased question I would imagine.
Flirting and mode of dress, whether it be from a man or a woman is not and has not been considered sexual abuse or sexual harrasment.
You are taking things out of context and exagerating.
Sexual harrasment is unwanted sexual advances that have been made known to be unwanted, from a man or a woman.
Flirting and what you wear are not harrasment, much less abuse.
Sexual abuse is physical.
2006-10-31 01:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋