We have two little girls and are thinking about not sharing the sex of the baby something EVERYONE wants to know what do you guys think?
2006-10-31 01:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by momof2 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That is up to you. If it is a boy don't go out and start buying boy things. Really, if I were you, I won't buy a thing.
When I had my two girls there was no such thing as finding out what the baby was going to be. They have come a long ways.
Now what I would do if it were me.....I wouldn't tell anyone and then after the baby has arrived, have a welcome home party for the little one. There is nothing wrong with that. Instead of a baby shower and getting all green and yellow things that's what I would do.
I have heard of parties being thrown as a welcome home from the hospital party and I think it is great....AND congratulations on your little one.
You will have to get back with us after the baby is born, to let US know if it is boy or girl....good luck on your decision.
2006-10-31 01:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by whenwhalesfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do what you feel is best. Keep it a secret and then tell them after the baby is born. There is nothing wrong with keeping a secret like that.. Congratulations!!!!
2006-10-31 01:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. Will your relatives start telling you what you should name the baby once they find out what it is or will they leave you alone and let you choose the name? That would influence my decision. Good luck.
2006-10-31 01:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why tick everyone off just tell them and get it over with plus then they will know what colors to go for pink or blue
2006-10-31 01:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be great to keep it to yourselves, but if you know, and start buying things, people will figure out that the dress you bought isn't for a boy
2006-10-31 01:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by misty_4_69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your call. if it's a girl, then you are all set with what you need, but if its a boy then you will need some new stuff. do you want people to be able to give you boy things or gender neutral things?
2006-10-31 01:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRIVACY they say is best kept by and individual better keep to yurselves
2006-10-31 01:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ukemson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's up to you, but i would share it cause then they will buy you the "correct" stuff.
2006-10-31 01:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋