There's this girl who is bitchy. She expects things to go her way and likes to boss around. People also like to refer to her as the "popular" girl, for some weird reason. What I can't understand is that despite others knowing her attitude, they side with her and dare not stand up against her even though it's obvious she's wrong.It's like people are intimidated by her. Sometimes we get into group conversations and although I know there are some of her opinions which are erroneous and can be corrected, she will start bitching once I (or anyone else for the matter) states their opinion.
How can I talk and deal effectively with such an attitdue, especially when everyone is siding her? How do I make myself convincing enough so that people will listen to my opinions? Should I fight back when she starts to get bitchy, or should I choose a more passive way and avoid confrontation?
Please help, I'm not very good at dealing with difficult people and I get very pissed off by arrogant character
2006-10-31 00:55:39 · 8 answers · asked by gik1234 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yep avoid confrontation. Obviously this girl is seeking attention. Just ignore her completely. Hopefully she'll get the message. As to the others siding with her, they are wimps. Everyone has the right to their opinion too. They need to have guts and stand up to this girl. If not, this girl or people like her will just walk all over you.
Reason I telling you this is because I used to be passive at one time too. My sister was the one who always spoke up for me. All I did is cry when a person bullied me around. Not no more.
2006-10-31 01:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing about this is that so many other people go along with her because she's popular. You should maybe look for some new friends who aren;t following in the footsteps of this girl. You should really just ignore her. You deserve to have an opinion and tell her that. Then leave it at that and don't argue with her. When she starts to get bitchy get up and walk away. That in itself is a statement about how you feel. Don't let her get to you...in the big picture of your life, she won't really matter.
2006-10-31 01:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl like this when I was in junior high. By the time we got to high school, she had no friends. Stop having anything to do with her. She'll harass you for awhile but if you ignore her and she can see she's having no effect on you, she'll cut it out.
2006-10-31 01:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Babs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sammeee ahh i have a girl like that at my school LOL she is rude, attention-seeking etc. just ignore her.. shes the one with the problem.. if u feel shes really pushing you to breaking point talk about it with a friend, .. always be yourself n remember that "the people that mind dont matter and people that matter dont mind".. sorry if it sounds lame lol its like 1;15am here n im half asleep zzzzzZZzzz..
2006-10-31 01:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she raises her voice, she does not lose energy. When you raise, you would lose energy. So, do not RAISE your voice. Instead, just do the other way. Just whisper in stead of speaking loud. Then all would look at you with attention. Good luck dear.
2006-10-31 01:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by ohe1990 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your answer lies in your last sentence, she knows how to push your buttons. Change your attitude and reaction. Wonders never seize to happen.
2006-10-31 01:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by PROPHET 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore...
2006-10-31 00:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them as if they are not there
2006-10-31 00:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋