2006-10-31 00:48:16 · 29 answers · asked by robby99 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
While bath salts, candles, and a massage are very nice. All us woman manage to do during those things is think about everything around the house that we should be doing instead. So... My favorite, is when my husband does things that make my day a little easier, and lets me sit down and take a load off. Like cook dinner, and clean up afterwards. Or give the kids a bath, and put them to bed without asking me to help. Its relaxing, and kind of a turn on too.
2006-10-31 00:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by nicole m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fu!k the candles and bath salts, massage is good, real good!! Or money to go spend on ANYTHING she wants,and it has to be a LOT OF MONEY so she dont get depressed when she sees something she really wants and cant have. A holiday to somewhere nice, a toyboy, sex or understanding from someone who she has been at logger heads with for a considerable amount of time. To be respected, understood and to feel free is the only way a woman cannot feel stressed.
Make sure no bills are in sight, no worries are on the cards and no demands from kids.
OH and a spliff realy does work if you want an instant relaxer. Trust me, if she dont smoke weed, then give her a brandy and coke. LISTEN to what she says and give her compliments. Make her life easier when she gotta get up for work. Get up 10 mins before her, run her bath, make her coffee/tea and toast, put the radio on a love station and watch her get ready and give her compliments as she is getting ready. She is shore to have a good day then. Or at least she will know you have TRIED, which to women is the MAIN thing as men ALWAYS somehow seem to get it wrong.
Goodluck mate. !! some women are non-pleasable.
2006-10-31 08:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the bath salts and candles work great if I can find quiet time to do this. If I can't, sometimes I just need a few hours of complete down time with no kids or husband. I know that is nearly impossible. My bed is the safest down time that i have once a week on a Sat. or Sun. afternoon.
2006-10-31 09:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by anndi37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lucky woman. I like good beer- Guinness Extra Stout, Sarnac Pumpkin Ale is pretty great right now, a beer called Purple Haze. A warm bed. A good man. I am also a firm believer that we could all probably have a bit more sex in our relationship.
2006-10-31 08:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by asking if she wants to talk, she will already start to think about how her mood makes you feel this will start to make her think about relaxing. Then get her a nice glass of wine tell her you love her and ask if she would like to choose a film to watch this evening. a massage whilst watching the film with go down well.
2006-10-31 09:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand the candles,but surely the salts must hurt
2006-10-31 08:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by smiler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BATH salts? Wow, I didn't know it was the medieval times. Um, a crisp walk outside first, a glass of wine, cozy blankets, perfect temperature, maybe a degree warmer than that, low lighting, make up a lie that she looks good, and then don't try anything- that will relax her.
2006-10-31 08:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what about a lovely massage/hand/foot rub..or a foot spa..aromatherapy candles/yoga/meditation or a nice indoor picnic & bottle of wine whilst snuggled up watching dvds on the sofa? candles!! XX
2006-10-31 16:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage is always nice! You don't even have to be good at it.
Go to The Body Shop and get some Massage oil, and just do your best.
She'll definitely appreciate it!
2006-10-31 08:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by carly s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A massage with quiet music and low lighting (scented candles) - it's good for both of you . . .
2006-10-31 08:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋