2006-10-31 00:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You speak as though you are warped, maimed and want to use people.....that is so sad and comes from an unloved place. "Trust the voice within" doesnt count if its disabled to start with.
The best personality should be your own....if you dont have a good one, look to those you admire but are not criminal, controlling or offensive to children.
Its BS that you should feel you have such crackpot fears and worries that your being is not normal. Its as real as the rest of us...stop making yourself so something special or freaky scary. You arent...we ALL have positive and negative vibes going.....you are as scary and lovely as the next person...AND you have a choice. Go the shite path and feel the consequences...go the chest out and fine stuff...and have those consequences too. Stop feeling like everyone owes you a living...no-one does..and we all do. Be real and quit scaring people....gain compassion and empathy and your stupid life might be worth a damn to others too.
2006-10-31 00:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many books about this that I'm surprised you had to resort to the Internet. Do you have a faith? If so then ask for strength to be good. Its hard but not impossible. Work hard, be happy, make other people happy, don't hurt others on purpose. Everyone will understand if you slip up once in a while. Think more of others than you do of yourself, and dream big. Deliver big. Never do something you know is wrong or will hurt someone.
2006-10-31 00:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open to understanding other ppl's point of view (perspective). Those with the best personalities are the ones who are most compassionate on others (like Gandhi, Mother Theresa... Jesus, naturally). When you try to see another person's point, then it makes you a better person because you're not increasing a person's sorrow but adding to their deep need for validation.
2006-10-31 00:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by retro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By really taking an interest in those around you. Be a good listener, and take a personal interest in them; I find people that do that have the best personalities, probably because the are not focused on themselves.
2006-10-31 02:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is a think which very much related to behaviour then outer exposure. So be cool, think good, do good, make good.
U will get very good personality. It will shape u in may way in your life.
U can lead ur life like anyone in the world.
2006-10-31 00:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sridhar S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is very important factor for a person i think we should stay in touch with good people always and we should belive in ourself and we should have confiedence in ourself what ever we do.
2006-10-31 04:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Preeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with people who have a great personality. Keep away from people who drag you down.
2006-10-31 00:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By interacting more and more people and by learning good things from them.and your behavior towards others also shows your personality so behave in good manner.
2006-10-31 00:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by harry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just belive in yourself and keep up your hygene and Always look sharp to impress!!
2006-10-31 00:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by cvcrcr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold take off the fear in you.Don't show off and be yourself.
2006-10-31 00:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋