how do we can get along with someone new?

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Answer 1

Just be yourself, people can tell when a person is trying to be somebody who they aren't.This will let the new person know they are free to be who they are. Don't be pushy and try to force pull them into your crowd, some people just aren't meant to get along. Accept them for who they are, the good and the bad . Be patient, sometimes it takes people a while to relax and fit in. Don't pretend that u like them if u find u don't and then talk about them behind their back. Ask if they would like u to introduce them to anybody who show them things, or Just let them know that if they need help give u a holler. GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

I don't know exactly what kind of answer you're looking for. Maybe I'm being too theoretical, but let me give you my understanding on why people get along together, what causes them to feel like there's some sort of "connection" between them.

What is important is a shared set of beliefs about how the world is. That's what some people call inter-subjectivity, and what I would call a shared "text". When you meet someone new, you may have the impression the person understands you if you are both making the same description of your common world, of the way it works and, from there, how it should work.

More importantly, if you both agree on the way things are and how one should behave within that framework, then you can predict the behavior of the other person, which makes that person seem more "familiar". For example, if you meet someone who, like you, thinks Yahoo! Answers is a nice on-line service, then you can somewhat predict that he or she also shares you interest for the Internet, that you can talk with him or her about your computer, etc. Its just an example and it might not work, but I suppose you get the general idea : if you both describe the world the same way, have the same mental "map" of the world, then you can predict how the other person will navigate within that map, and that may give you a sens of connection, of familiarity.

Answer 3

Take it one day at a time. Talk to them. Go out with them. Eventually, a relationship will form.

Answer 4

I always put myself in someone`s shoes so i want to be treated with respect, people to be interested with what I say & does, and to be open.

Answer 5

ask them questions about themselves. alot of people like to talk about themselves. try to find out about the person

Answer 6

Find a way to help him/her.
Be talktative, friendly, and humorous.
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Answer 7

i quess byt talking to strangers