Inspite of trying everything to forget him/her u cant get him/her out of ur mind..When u r with ur friend u r happy bt again u get alone u start thinking abt him/her..U try to know what did u done wrong for this rude behaviour of his / her but cant point out..Try putting urself in this situation and now say what comes to ur heart..Is there some1 in ur life like this..
2006-10-31 00:05:32 · 20 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TWO PARTS ONE IS SYMPATHY THE OTHER IS LOVE. WHAT YOU THINK IT DEPENDS ON YOU.
2006-11-02 02:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the person u care for is always some one close to ur heart there is no way u can care for every one in the same way,so its very impossible feeling to get that person out of ur mind inspite that person ignores u makes u angry treats u rude u can only think whats wrong why he or she is doing this to me ,the best thing for u is think that if u were that he or she and that person was u what would be the stage then could the things be ok or had ben the same u will get ur answer,i m married to the girl with whom i had the same problems, for two years all was good we got engaged after these things started she started avoiding me ignoring me our relation was close to an ending but than i did what i told u before and today we love each other like anything woodtouch.....may god help u too
2006-11-07 14:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by sweet shaan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, I hated such a situation but I tried and tried to forget the pain and take interest in other people and things and I lead a fairly normal life. I do remember the stab of pain which I felt, especially when the person said something to the effect that I was the one following him around and that he can easily get friends like me in my presence. But then, I could only pray that he never faces a situation where he really needs a friend like me and there is not one nearby. But that was what my friend repeatedly chose and finally, I chose not to be a doormat anymore, no matter how much pain and hurt I felt. I am happy I took that decision, it worked for me.
2006-11-01 07:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy - this is called insecutiry. The gitrl doesn't seem to be interested in you. Either she has some1 else in her life or she thinks you are not her type,
world doesn't end here. There is a famous saying Tu nahi to aur sahi aur nahi to aur sahi. Find a new girl. The day you find a new 1, the same movement you will forget this girl.
Mayb she will realise later how much you cared for her and come back to you.
2006-10-31 14:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by zarar don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're going through, and its painful. People will tell you that it'll get better in time, but I haven't found that to be the case yet. There may always feel like a part of you is missing, but you may be one of the lucky ones who meets someone to fill that void. How soon you're able to move on depends on the dynamics and nature of the relationship. Til then, just keep occupied. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 08:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot control other people's behavior, only our own...if someone makes it clear they don't desire our company, friendship, love (whatever the case may be) then the best course for us is to get over it and move on...
...dwelling on it, worrying over it, analyzing it, letting it control our lives, does nothing but make us miserable and has no effect on the other party at all....this life is too short to worry about why other people behave in ways we don't understand or can't justify...
Sometimes you just have to know when to let it go, and not waste time mulling over something you have no control over...
2006-10-31 08:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very bad state that being ignored. Before you feel disappointed think whyyou care so much. If you care the one for some thing in return it will be selfishness then there wont be so much grace in you caring just love love and love still the other one ignores thats their bad luck and blindness that fail to feel your caring and love. think that they are not worthy of it.
2006-11-06 13:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person you love ignores you inspite of all the love you have for him or her in your heart ,SHAKE YOURSELF, ACCEPT THE REALITY AND MOVE ON .Iknow it isn't as easy as I had written but Life is like that...and you have only one life. so forget the pastmay be someone better is waiting for you round the corner.
2006-11-04 15:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its done move on stop thinking about it. you dont want that person back if they hurt you this much anyway. so stop thinking about it and move on and stop drinking until you are over it cause drinking will only make you more depressed. go play painball or shoot a target something legaly destructive will make you feel better then going out drinking.
what ever you do do not call that person again.
2006-10-31 08:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i would ask them to be honest with me and telling ho they are feeling at least figure out what you did if you did anything cause you know sometimes you dont really have to do anything the person just falls out of love with you but try correcting the problem if you can.
2006-10-31 08:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in that kind of situation. its so hard at first, but what can we do if that person doesnt like us? sometimes (and it pains) truth hurts. why dont you try to meet other people? of course there is someone outhere who will love you and accept you. dont let yourself suffer and live in pain! move on, and find someone who is worth of your attention and will love you in return.
2006-10-31 08:11:02 · answer #11 · answered by <fish_me> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋