do you think?

Question

do you think that people abuse the real reason to bring children into the world?

for example for money etc...

i myself do not have children but sometimes i see people having kids for the money factor.

Answer 1

Yes I do and we have no kids ourselves either, but we have lots of family and friends that do have kids, they expect us to look after their kids for them of a weekend so they can go out and enjoy themselves because they have had to 'put' up with their kids all week and need a break, sorry but we chose not to have children for several reasons and don't see why we should give our time up together to look after other peoples kids for them, it really annoys me when they say they've 'had to put up with' their children, why have them if that's how they feel about them then.

Answer 2

Yes some people do and i dont understand why, i have children and they are the best thing thats happened to me, i havn't had much money and i never have but my husband and i have enjoyed every minute, i decided that i would stay at home to be with the children while my husband went to work and though its been a struggle its been a happy one money isn't everything.

Answer 3

In some cases yes - its not only young parents that have a child as they see it as a free meal ticket - older woman do it too - its the society they are in not the age. Also woman have babies to attempt to trick a guy into staying with them and that doesnt work either, some think a child will repair a damaged relationship and that often fails too. People should only have children if they are prepared to raise them properly and teach them morals and how to be good people xx

Answer 4

It depends on the condition of the parents which depend why to raise children. If parents are well settled then they could adopt a child too. And if they are very poor then they can even sell their child too..

Pl. take my personal advice first have child then decide.. it is not easy to abuse your own child.

Answer 5

I think some people do for an example my step son told me he and is girlfriend are trying to have a baby so the welfare will get them an apartment. He was raised up that way by his mother who has a child every three years so she will not lose her welfare benefits. Just think 7 already who will be raised to believe you don't have to work just pop out baby's to get paid.

Answer 6

I think there's something in what you're saying ... I've seen people go gaga over having children simply because everyone they know is doing it.

My husband was very keen for us to have babies, but I have never been interested in becoming a parent. I pointed out to him that our lifestyle would change radically if we did have a baby, we wouldn't be able to travel or buy nice things, as all our money would go to rearing this child. He finally saw sense.

Answer 7

Yes, like very young parents etc, they think if they have a baby they'll get a nice flat and free money coming in every week from the government!

Answer 8

i think a lot of people do and thats why this world is so screwed up now. no one cares about other people just themselves and to some babies are a get rich quick scheme.

Answer 9

Yes I do, good question, a thumbs up from me

Answer 10

Do you?