I'm Always Thinking About Other Women Doing Things To Me. My Partner Knows But Im Not Sure If Im Straight
2006-10-30 22:49:25 · 35 answers · asked by Nadine S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you may be bisexual. Or Bicurious. A bisexual would be someone who has romantic and/or sexual relations with other people of more than one sex (though not necessarily at the same time)
Since not everyone has necessarily had the opportunity to act on their sexual/romantic attractions, some people prefer a looser definition; for instance, that a bisexual is a person who - in their own estimation - feels potentially able to have such attraction. This could be anyone who has erotic, affectionate, or romantic feelings for, fantasies of, and/or experiences with both men and women.
Many women have fantasies about being with another woman.
Some people worry that fantasising about someone other than their partner is an act of betrayal, revealing either a desire to be unfaithful or that they are longer turned on by their partner alone.
In fact, this is very rarely the case. Evidence suggests that those who fantasise the most are in happy, loving, trusting relationships. It's in this kind of context that the mind explores places the body has no intention of visiting.
2006-10-30 22:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Orditz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing is even straight people think about the same sex in an erotic way. It doesn't mean your gay, you could simple be curious. have you ever been with a women before. If no then perhaps that's why you think about it. All i can suggest is that you experiment. Can you see your self being intimate with a women. Not just being pleased by a women but you yourself pleasing her? This is something that you need to think about. It can't be taking lightly. Good luck and i hope you figure it all out :)
2006-10-31 00:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Sometimes a young woman/teenager will go through a phase where they think they may be a lesbian or bi. I think that there are two ways to try this:
1. see a counsellor, but that's not for everyone - only if you feel comfortable with it
2. date a female who is also lesbian/bi and
see how it goes.
2006-10-31 00:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It's perfectly natural, it's curiosity! If you've never been with a woman then you're probably just curious as to what it would be like. You could always suggest a threesome with another woman and your partner and see how you feel if and when it happens.
It could just be a phase though so see how you get on when/if you try it.
2006-10-30 22:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You gotta think of it like this: Would you ever kiss a woman and feel comfortable? If so, would you ever be naked with a woman and feel comfortable? If so, would you ever touch a womans breasts and v****a and feel comfortable? If you think you could really feel comfortable doing these things then get rid of your boyfriend because you're with him for the wrong reasons. Get yourself a woman who feels the same as you and be free! Good luck.
2006-10-30 23:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it too much. I'm about as straight as they come and I have fantasies like that from time to time. Maybe you're a lesbian, maybe you're bisexual...who knows. But it's a pretty normal thing to fantasize about the same sex, even if you never act on it.
2006-10-30 22:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by angk 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think yes you are,at least you would not mind to have sex with women nor with guys but i am sure you prefer to be sexed with women.just find your way up.but remember life is men and women so you think more before you leap.think that you will get older think that it is not right to practice same sex,thing of God ,thing ofbeing a mother ,children ..etc..
good luck.
2006-10-30 23:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by only_g_i_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same feelings sometimes and im married with three kids love my husband to death and we have fantastic sex life. i just think we all get turned on more by thinking what we asume are naughty thoughts if it feels wrong then it exites you more. thats why we all love having sex in public places it gives you a big adrenalin rush thinking you may get caught.
2006-10-30 23:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh ! I must be a lesbian too, I think about women all the time!
2006-10-30 22:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by sluggo1947 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out for sure is to dip your toe in the water...it might be that you are just unhappy with the man you are with and are trying to find a way out....but give it a go you might like it....good luck
2006-10-30 22:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by michael b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋