So yesterday after having sex for the 1st time (the condom broke & im trying to get plan b) well anyways i looked down there w/ a mirror and theres this weird skin thats kinda hanging out near the opening. it was really hot pink/and some purpleish in color. and its not my labia. is somthing wrong with me? please help!
2006-10-30 22:42:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Great question!! This is your torn hymen. The pink and purple coloration should be considered a bruise, since you really did injury to the hymen during intercourse. It should also be swollen a bit. It is all perfectly natural.
The hymen will remain as it is from now on (well, actually, the swelling and coloration will reduce, but the skin will stay where it is). I encourage you to get to know the looks of it. This is done so that when you do experience changes, such as bumps, lumps, or other issues, you know what the hymen, labia, and vagina opening should look like normally. This will help you seek help for possible STDs ... if it looks weird, you always see a doctor.
Know that condoms can and will break. They need to be fresh and NOT carried in a wallet or back pocket (they wear too much with the pressure). Condoms only protect against STDs and pregnancy when they remain whole. You will want to determine for yourself what to do in the event this happens in the future. A good GP or gynecologist can help you make informed decisions about your body. Please ask at your next check up. And get a pap smear every year!
2006-10-31 01:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a peice of skin around the opening of your vagina that breaks when you have sex for the first time, thats why it hurts so much, don't worry, its going to heal. (thats what they call the "cherry" )
Please get on birthcontrol, condoms are only 80% effective, thats why they break.. there is depo provera a 3 month birth control injection, nuvaring (a flexible ring that stays in your vagina for three weeks, so you don't have to remember to take the pill) or the pill, all my girls at my school have gotten knocked up and are now pregnant , and they are 13-18 yrs old, and i'm sure they used a condom.
2006-10-30 23:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pook 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly i understand there's a such subject as anal bleaching so perhaps for that too. She could inspect anal bleaching it would paintings for that. yet whilst he particularly is the proper guy he wont care he desire to do this with the aid of fact he cares for her and realizes that its her pores and skin and not something is incorrect together with her.
2016-10-03 03:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dint use a mirror when i first had sex but i think it would be normal hun dont worry oh and get the morning after pill quickly
2006-10-30 22:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Loz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its only the stretching of your skin it's normal. please always use protection, an you need the day after pill
2006-10-30 22:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by bonnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your not a virgin any more you broke what is called the hymen or maidenhead.
2006-10-31 01:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Badseed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an STD
2006-10-31 01:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by robertson_c92 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋