I thought that by the 6th month of pregnancy the hormones had calmed down in my gf but i spoke too soon, we got in another stupid arguement and she went off.. How much longer until she returns to her normal self or is this gonna last through the entire pregnancy and a couple months after she has the baby? help me I am sooo tired of going round and round with this woman over nothing every 2 or 3 days,and ladies yes i am understanding and i have been by her side the entire time, i don't yell back at her but it is just really messin with my head i'm tired of biting my tongue i'm ready for this to be over
2006-10-30 22:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hang on - the ride's nowhere near being over! Even after delivery there is this wonderful thing called post-partum (after delivery) - some women have a horrible time with emotional roller-coasters during that. Plus.... having a baby's schedule and demands mean she won't be getting enough rest, etc, etc,.
If you're not already doing it, find a group of other preggo's for mutual support.
If her moods run wild for more than a few weeks after delivery - she definitely needs medical support.
Good luck to all! (been there, done that,.... twice)
2006-10-30 22:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! My partner would sooo sympathise with you! I'm 6 months and my God, have I put the poor man through hell! You are quite right that it could well last for months after the pregnancy. I have advised my partner to be patient with me and listen to what I have to say. Even if I'm mad or upset for no reason, just listen and care. That is what you are gonna have to do if you are both gonna survive this! I know it's hard but trust me, she is going through alot of emotional ups and downs and she cannot control it. Sympathise with her please, she is very vulnerable right now. Just pamper her in any way you can. Give her a massage, run to the store for her if she needs something, make her dinner... anything to show you care. When she goes off for no reason just be calm, take a deep breath and give her what she wants!!!!! Oh, and if things don't calm down after a couple of months after the birth, encourage her to seek help, because it could escalate into post natal depression. So best to nip it in the bud. You are doing a great job so far... and it will end!
2006-10-31 06:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by miss_ruby_topaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe hehehe I pity you. i was totally opposite. i generally fight a lot with my hubby but my preg was the best thing that ever happened to him he says. i was all smiles and calm the first 7 mns. and he once said, ppl say you go thru mood swings during pregnancy but in your case it as changed you for the better. but after 7 mns i didnt start pissing him off again. so just be patient and keep distance :0) all the best for the baby. try telling your partner that her temper will directly reflect on the growing baby, which infact is true. she shud try to calm herself atleast for the fear that life can be hell later on if the baby turns out moody and whiny.
2006-10-31 06:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by GAWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might last till like a week or 2 after she has the babie/babies.also the fighting might be going on because not only she's pregnant but shes stressed out cause she thinks that she's not attractive anymore it's perfectly normal. just make sure that you tell her how beautiful she is and whatever she wants you to do you have to do it trust me. i did that to my husband and i was fine but when he didn't do it i got facial.
2006-10-31 06:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is normal, she is going thru pains. You are the only one she can react angrily to. Please calm down she is carrying your baby. It will soon be over. Pregnancy behaviour differs from woman to woman, never mind it will be over. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-31 06:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by logirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to deal with iot as much as u can be lucky your not the 1 havin the baby
2006-11-01 21:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋