Actually my girl friend was loving a boy who was staying in her house but now they have no relation,but that boy still come to her house and talk with my girl friend, i cannot tollerete that.There is always mis understanding between us.She always promise me that there is no relationship between them but when she is talking to him i cannot tollerete.I have already told my girlfriend don'i talk with her but she says there is a familiar relation with the boys family, so if she will not talk to him her family members will ask her.I am in greater confusion.
So plz tell me what should i do?
2006-10-30 21:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by Smruti Ranjan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All relation survive on faith and trust only and you seem to have neither faith in the strenght of your relationship or trust in your girlfriend. your situation is understandable but so is your girlfriend's deliema.
aks your grilfriend to include you in family meetings especiall when her ex is arround. that's the best she can do to make you feel comfertable, but even then there is no guarantee of your feeling secure. i mean tell me, if you dont trust her, then do you think you will be happy by just knowing whom your girl is meeting or not meeting? in your heart that insecutrity will still be there even if she sits in front of you 24/7.
so the solution is in your hands only. Start showing trust towards your gf. that's the only way out of this problem... and do it soon or else it can even break your relationship.
2006-10-30 21:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Felicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not "Sorry" for you. But, you have to understand that this is what life is all about, and that is why people say "Love is Blind". I would suggest you do not feel sorry for your frnd. However, let your frnd continue this way. You will surely feel bad about her. What you can do is introduce your frnd to someone u feel is good for your frnd. Make them meet a couple of times. This would result in two things. 1st: Either your frnd will go back to first person, which will enable u to understand the depth of their relationship. 2nd: Your frnd will live a new life with a new frnd. Be cautious, doing so will now make you responsible for 2 lives. Take Care! and All the Best!!!
2006-10-30 21:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by cuttielittleboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jealous. Don't try to control her or you will loose her. Let her know how you feel but don't give her ultimatiums. That is the worse thing you could do. If she has never given you a reason not to trust her then you should trust her unconditionally. Good luck
2006-10-30 21:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak from the heart let her know that this is really bothering you and is affecting your relationship and if you guys want to make it work then she is gonna have to at least compromise with you.Ive been through that before and it took me almost 3 years to make him realize that but i got thru and now we are happier than ever
2006-10-30 21:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tumhe koi aur dekhe to jalta hain dil,
badi mushkilose fir ubharata hain dil ...
I think you are to obsessive with her. That happens in love. Do not try to concetrate on this thing. Do not try to think about it. When this thought will come to your mind, get rid of it, by thinking how sexy Yana Gupta looks in Babuji song.
If that doesn't help, get help from some psychologist.
2006-10-30 23:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r doubtful..then there is some problem with you.. Only solution is that.. You have to change.. Come to the comfort zone by getting rid of your insecured feeling.. Trust your galfriend...
2006-10-30 21:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon, after reading that, im in greater confusion that u r!
however - do u feel that something is happening with ur girl and this ex of hers? got any proof? if u dont truly believe anything is going on, and have no proof, then id suggest u back off. if u dont, she will get sick of u and her ex will start looking better and better, and u will be DUMPED.
2006-10-30 21:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by bettie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL AS YOU WRITING THAT SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM. DEAR A PERSON MALE OR FEMALE CANNOT FORGET HIS OR HER FIRST LOVE. SECOND IF YOU CANNOT BELIEVE ON HER WHY YOU ARE LOVING HER. DOUBT HAVE NO PLACE IN LOVE. IT MEANS THAT YOU CANNOT FORGET HER EARLIER LOVE. YOU CANNOT BE GOOD PARTNER IN HER LIFE.
2006-10-30 22:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to stop seeing him!
2006-10-30 21:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋