2006-10-30 21:28:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Actually, it's really easy for me to do that, because I don't do it often. It takes a lot for someone to upset me that much, so when it does happen, I am able to snap my fingers and be done with the whole mess. That's not to say that I'll never entertain the possibility of a person returning to my life sometime in the future though, because that has happened to me. That might be harsh, but I am what I am, just me.
2006-10-30 21:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Very. I've turned my back on so many people in my life it's not even funny. This includes about 90% of my family (including my parents.) Listen, I treat everybody the same: as g-ddamn human beings... just because you're a family member, lover, co-worker or friend doesn't win you any special treatment in my books. If I like you, I'll catch a bullet meant for you with my teeth...but that doesn't mean I won't nail you to the cross if I think you have it coming. I give everybody one chance. You f--k it up, that's it, see you, bye, with no forwarding address (incidentally, I always expect the same sort of treatment in return; it's only fair.) I am completely self sufficient; I don't NEED anybody else, okay? This amazes my girlfriend...she can never understand how I can say "F--k you" to somebody and actually MEAN it. She's seen me do it plenty of times over the years. At the same time, I've been lied to, betrayed, used and conned by so many people in my life ('cos I'm a nice guy...and you know what they say about nice guys) that I don't trust easily at all anymore. It has made me very, very jaded and cynical. At the same time, I must have enough of an ego, self confidence and self esteem that I can rise above it all. The people I know seem to envy these attributes, though I'm not sure why...
2006-10-31 05:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by J.A.R. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever split apart a mass of daylilies that has been growing for years? At first, you try gently to undo the knotted roots, but it is always the same, you end up mudstreaked, sweaty faced standing over then driving a hatchet down in to the middle.
It is very hard sometimes. Sometimes, I give more and more space, more time between calls or visits, but sometimes the abrupt WHACK is kinder to all involved.
It lets the transplanting begin sooner as the roots aren't out of the soil for so long, drying out, exposed.
2006-10-31 07:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've had to do it to my brothers, and sisters, I don't don't feel good about it but, what else can I do, I have a family now, my parents are dead, I have a wife and little boy and a life, Ever have your family slap you with a legal suite in court ? That will drop the bottom out of your world. You know it's over when you no longer get angry thinking about it, just that you don't care, or have ANY feelings for them anymore, I was told that I was an "outcast" a "No-Goodnik", and a "Black Sheep" since I can remember, Life is better now that there are nice people there (wife, son) that tell me they love me, and appreciate me. I no longer get Brow beaten, wonder how everyone,s doing, haven't spoken in years, "Baaa, Baaa, Baaaaaa"
2006-10-31 05:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon how I feel about them. If I've developed a fondness for them or love them, then it's more difficult.
If I don't particularly care for them or if I find them annoying, then it's extremely easy for me to leave them out of my life. They may leave phone messages or e-mails, but I don't respond to them. If they simply show up at my place, they're told I'm not available or out.
I change my e-mail address every 6 months or so, and have an unlisted phone and cel phone number, so people tend to get the message.
I've been told by some I can be "cold" but I'd rather be cold than be unhappy and miserable surrounded by people I don't like or find irritating, or who I simply cannot stand. This includes relatives as well as former friends and friend "wanna-be's".
2006-10-31 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by le païen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talking from experience - it's very easy. Because usually the people you want to cut out of your life drive you insane.
So to do it is a breeze.
2006-10-31 05:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends how close I was to them in the first place-I've tried to cut some people out of my life but when I become good friends with someone its really hard for me to just forget them no matter what they do :)
2006-10-31 07:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy,I disowned my mother 6 months ago.
2006-10-31 06:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't include ppl who I wld have to cut out frm my life in the 1st place.
2006-10-31 05:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very easy when they purposely hurt me. I have no time for cruel people. :)
2006-10-31 08:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋