I've been hurt so badly in relationships that were honest but seems like women can leave a relationship easliy without giving a damn about someone's feelings.
2006-10-30 21:14:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because the modern day woman dont give a shyte.
2006-10-30 21:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're generalizing and maybe there's truth in your observation. As a woman, I've been both terribly hurt by a breakup (doing the deed and having been done by it) and I've had to unintentionally hurt someone. Speaking for myself and perhaps other women out there, I've had to learn to build a protective shield around my heart so as to not keep feeling that pain. I call it mindf***king. It's not that we don't give a damn about someone's feelings; it's that we go numb because we have to in order to survive ourselves. If the relationship is all wrong, and the man is the one who is messed up, fragile, damaged from past experiences, mentally unstable, and unable to cope with the loss, then it's inevitable that he'll be hurt. But my advice is that one learns how to mindf***k themselves into moving on and surviving. This doesn' t have to hardened one's heart; it's only used as a protection devise. And if the woman who leaves is truly a hardened *****, you should be glad she's out of your life anyway and realize she wasn't the one for you. Find someone who appreciates and loves you for you. She's out there somewhere. Remember though, NO one is perfect.
2006-10-31 05:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wild generalization, but still. I think the woman does her reckoning BEFORE the breakup. That's why. If really committed to the relation, she does anything to make it work, e.g. talk to her partner, bring forward issues, try to solve them, and if nothing works proceeds with breakup. I would guess that a guy doesn't take issues personally as long as the relation continues, and afterwards starts to wonder what went wrong. Ok, ok, this is a wild generalization, too, but a viewpoint nonetheless.
2006-10-31 05:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the circumstances as well as the personality of the two parties, if one is more selfish than the other that will be the one to be able to move on quicker and easier, and probably the one who will never say they are sorry but in the long run they will be the one to suffer the most because it will catch up with them.
2006-10-31 05:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not true. it may be true in some cases but most of the time, irregardless of whether you're a man or a woman, getting over a failed relationship takes a lot of time to get used to.
2006-10-31 05:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only leave a relationship easily if I got hurt really bad...why would you want to dwell in misery!? NOONES worth my time and life to hurt you THAT bad. F THAT! =) no attachments!
2006-10-31 05:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know who YOU'VE been talking to...it takes me forever. But one of my best girlfriends says, "the best way to over a man is to get under one" personally, i think that sucks. it takes a long time to move on
2006-10-31 06:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say its the opposite, I see men moving on faster than women!
2006-10-31 05:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share of relationships and I've seen both men and women take it hard.
The women you have had relationships with obviously weren't in it for love.
Don't put all of us in one category.
2006-10-31 05:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay!!!
not all of us are like that.
but women are good at disguising how they feel.
they may seem like they dont give a damn but bet your bottom dollar they probably hurting as much as you they just not letting you see it.
2006-11-01 10:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋