I have a high sexual level compared to my wife, I want se’x all the time, 2 to 4 times a day, my wife barley once 2 times a week. I can't handle not having as much as I want, I have been trying to explain to her that I have needs and she should help to fulfill them, but she says what do you want me to do, force my self to give you, even I am not in the mood.
I am starting to lose my cool, I think of cheating all the time, and I am a very faithful type of Man, but I can’t stop thinking of what I want.
What should I do, I don't wont to destroy my marriage because lack of s e x ONLY, and I do Love my Wife, But I guess its true Love is just not Enough.
2006-10-30 21:10:56 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Justice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is a huge problem i know i'm the same way i could do sexual things 3 or 4 times a day and my boyfriend is more like everyother day. you shouldnt force your wife to even if she doesnt want to because technically thats rape. but if you cheat you are risking getting a disease or losing your wife and thats not good!! how old is your wife? i think women hit their sexual peak around 29-35 and men about 19-24 you do need to explain to her tht it is becoming a serious problem but dont say you have needs that she should fulfill because thats just rude its like saying your the wife so you should do all the housework. why dont you just masterbate? its ok to fantasize about other women and watch porn as long as you are not cheating on her
2006-10-30 21:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being so selfish. Do you think sex is the only thing in a relationship?? If you need sex more you have a couple of options.
1) Do it yourself like you did when you were younger.
2) Be more romantic with your wife. Treat her to a nice romantic dinner. Tell her how much you love her.
Just because you have a high sex drive does not mean she does. Maybe you need to pay more attention to her and then she would be more willing to give it up more.
Good luck
2006-10-31 05:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and your wife can compromise..
Maybe this comment by you turned her off...
"I have been trying to explain to her that I have needs and she should help to fulfill them"
Marriage is a partnership..if she's not in the modd she's not in the mood...it's a compromise. Try asking her or finding out what gets her "in" the mood and go from there.
Explain to your wife how you feel about this situation...in detail..not judt your "needs" women understand better when they can relate to a "real" answer a heartfelt answer. It sounds as though you love your wife so she will understand if you open up to her.
And lastly, True Love is enough...you just have to work at it.
2006-10-31 05:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love in marriage not only for sex, lots of different things to do to build happy family, make the others happy means make you happy..
2006-10-31 05:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat. What is wrong with pleasuring yourself? Or maybe ask her to give you a hand? don't ruin a marriage over sex.
2006-10-31 09:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like getting off too mate. They just fix themselves up.
2006-10-31 05:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty typical !!!
2006-10-31 05:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by hasenbeneasy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋