Any experiences ?
2006-10-30 20:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That the man is not a "man" to her children
That he doesn't want to raise some else's children
The he only wants half of the package meaning, that the man only wants the mother and not the children
That the man can not support his "new" family
That he won't be a role model for your children
That he treats you and your children right
I could go on and on...but these are a few
2006-10-30 20:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the main problems is people assuming that single parents want to remarry when in reality most just want a relationship that may lead to more marriage isn't necessarily on their minds.
The problems single parents have dating include:
time
money
babysitters
whether or not the kids want her to date
how the kids feel about the man she is dating
the kids dad
tiredness
the fact parents can't just up & do something arrangements & plans have to be in place first
2006-10-31 04:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single moms have to consider their children, not just their idea of having a good time with someone. Children are a major reason for second marriages ending. You cannot imagine the lengths they will go to overturn your plans. Even your own children can sometimes want to mess up parent's lives.
A second marriage takes lots of strength, unity, consideration of all the family. If you are not up to it, being a Saint, and all that would entail, do move on to a single lady friend without family.
2006-10-31 04:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is to find single father. Is hard to find, like me what for I need women with babe if I can make own. But is many desperate men who can accept the situation. I try ones but we never could go out because of the child, and I gave up.
All the personal web side are some hope, but people on it mostly have problem with themselves.
2006-10-31 04:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
single moms need Love from man to protect her life and kids, it's normal. Life with 2 people more interesting
2006-10-31 05:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single mother my biggiest problem was finding a man that would accept me and my child. They all seem to just want me and wanted me to "neglect" my baby. Then it was that they wanted children for me to prove my love for them, and then it always fell down hill from there!!!
2006-10-31 05:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for pedophiles who will target you in order to get at your children and watch out for physical abusers who will think they are doing you a favor by being with you because you have kids. It's dangerous these days as you know.
2006-10-31 04:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the searching is not the problem it is the keeping!!!
My kids ran off every guy I tried to date (and one I married, that needed run off)
so I basicly waited till the all graduated high school now they love my man and we are married
2006-10-31 04:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a single mom... i went abroad and finly found the right man for me here, as of now were planning to get married... the only thing that bothering me is...what if we'll going to have a kid of our own, how will he going to deal with my daughter?! is he going to treat her as his own and will he love her just like his own daughter...
2006-10-31 04:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have time to find a man
2006-10-31 04:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋