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2006-10-30 20:23:15 · 13 answers · asked by sonruyaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear:
Freedom with marriage!
There is no marriage if there is no freedom these two makes a relationship healthy and very strong!
Every woman probably dreams of being happi;y married with the one she loves but not her freedom being taken away!
Freedom is our God given right and if it is denied we bring ourselves back to the days of slavery!
So your question is not so valid since freedom is an inborn factor in the lives of both animals and humans!
Marriage on the other hand is based on our values and life happenings!
Marriage is the union of two souls, how can this take place if one or both of the soul is bound in the shakles of slavery!
Goodluck!
Love SANAM
2006-10-30 20:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably meant "independence" as opposed to "freedom". Unless your spouse is abusive and possessive, you can have freedom in a marriage. Its your costituional right. However, you will NEVER ever again have full-fledged independence. All the important decisions in your life have to be made in consideration of your spouse and what is best for the "team". There is no "I" in team. That's just way too much comprimise than what I am willing to offer. Merging finances becomes a difficult mess too (the #1 reason for divorce). Personally, I prefer my independence, so I choose to be unmarried. And guess what? Being unmarried does not equal ALONE, unless you're a hermit with no social skills. I love that I can decide when and where to travel, to come and go as I please, and to not have a second job (a marriage is like a 2nd job). I love not having to constantly coordinate my schedules with anyone and going out with friends when I choose to. And, I love that I can pick up my things and move to a new city (like I just did) to boost my career without a second thought. Don't get me started on the in-laws. Freedom/independence rocks!
2006-10-31 04:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the beginning of freedom , the freedom to love to totally expierence another ,without fear.To learn your reason for being, and how much you can love and be loved by another person. Freedom to workout flaws in your behavior . Freedom to just be you.
2006-10-31 08:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom in Marriage - Both is good
2006-10-31 05:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are married this doesn't mean that you have no freedom. Marriage is the union of two people who want to be together because they love each other. That union does NOT mean lost of freedom.
2006-10-31 04:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage wins freedom is a state of mind and love is the best thing in the world
2006-10-31 09:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by shawn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom you can do what ever you want don't have to get out of bed stay out all night with out the other half having ago at you spend as much as you want ply games all day in fact freedom says it all with out the other half having ago all the time DAM THERE A PAIN IN THE AR SE
2006-10-31 04:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you suggesting there is no freedom in marriage?
2006-10-31 04:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by *happyas* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom to do what? Sex with many others? How long can that last? Being married is still the best option.
2006-10-31 06:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage...just to be there takes a lot of freedom to choose!
2006-10-31 04:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by lyn_sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋