I am seeing a girl regularly in the bus stop. I like her and i wish to befriend her. She don't know anything about me and i too.Am working in a company as tech Engineer.
2006-10-30 17:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by Vaseegaran 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IF YOU ARE GOING IN THE SAME BUS OFFER HER SEAT. OR WAIT FOR OPPORTUNITY WHEN SHE REQUIRES HELP FROM SOMEONE GO AND HELP HER.
2006-10-30 23:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, i am also an engineer.i can understand your feelings.first if you want to make her only friend,it is OK.go ahead and say ,"i want to be your friend,but only on the day of friendship or any other like Valentine, rose day.but,till then you do not anything because in this way perhaps she will not give you response"
2. if you want to make her more than friend,pals do not try anything from above because if you try it then you may be lost her. so,first take detail about her and try to what kind of nature she have after that know her behaviour with boys.after it,i cannot suggest you anything because you can help yourself and go ahead with planning,which your heart suggest you.
the main thing is that it is not love because it is attraction,you like her because she looks good,but in nearly future you may be heard about her affairs.so,pals check all thing.i suggest you,you are in attraction,true friend &love isnot the attraction but factors are nature.so pls think again and go .
2006-10-31 02:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by jay d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand beside her and make small talk; like " The bus seems to be late today", etc. All things begin with small steps. Then the following day, ask her name...and then all will fall into place.
2006-10-31 03:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of stuff happens almost too any one in the world be it boys or girls. But the solution to this problem is courage and maybe a little faith and luck. But most importantly is Courage. Without it you will never succeed when it comes to relationships.
2006-10-31 02:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Balloon Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) "yeh, kya bolti tu?" ... (pause, angry look)
"This is my favorite song, what about you?"
2) "Do you study in Ruparel college?"
"No".
"Me neither, great."
3) "The dress you are wearing is great. I wan to buy one for my ex girlfriend. From where you get it?"
4) "Excuse me. What is the time? Actually I lost my watch today. Normally I am very carefull, but that day while washing the hands I forget it there only.
oh, sorry to tell, my name is popat, whats ur?"
2006-10-31 07:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a global problem.
Day dream a lot. In dreams you assume yourself as a super hero, and you will find a lot of ways to talk to the girl.
Then really dare to the same thing.
If you cannot even dream, its not your cup of coffee, boss.
Somebody's idea might not work for your case. Believe me. Go for it. ;)
2006-10-31 02:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a small talk...say hi...
old time fave----> asking for time
since u seen her at bus stop, ask about bus route or something...
dont sound too eager or she might think u stalking her...
good luck!!
2006-10-31 02:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by fallforniky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, u better ask if she is ur old friend and go that way and then ur talent will take u there.
2006-10-31 10:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by ChanIndian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move in similar circles... if you see her everyday ... smile and acknowledge her presence once in a while ... dress smart ,... wear a good deo ... and just be interesting
2006-10-31 07:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow girl at the bus stop......hmmm...interesting!! but first u hav 2 detect that wat kind o' gurl she is ?? Is she DESI or MOdern Or stuff like that.......
If she is a Desi gurl just walk 2 to 3 times infront of her....& remember don't look at her...make her look at u..then act that u slip and r 'bout 2 fall on her...then say""Sorry....aapko chot to nahin lagi?kya aap thik hai....(act like a SHARRIF MAN)Kya aap har roz yahaan aati hain?maine to aapko kabhi nahin dekha (maska maro) kya aapko cold drink chahiye??((obviously she would say 'no'.....first meet yaar))..Ye kambkhat bus bhi kitna late karta hai... thik hai baad me milenge...bye""
NEXT DAY:Simply walk to her and say "hello ji.....sab thik thak.....kya main aapko pareshaan kar raha hoon...to maaf kar dijiyega wo kya hai main yahaan akela bore ho jata hoon na isiliye......haanji to aap kahaan rehti hain..... kamaal ho gaya main aapke ghar ke paas hi rehta hoon...........""Phir BHANJTE raho aur kya...
IF she's modern......then u have to impress her ....Modern gurls like guys on bike not on the bus......Or u can secretly write letters or give gifts to her....dont write ur name or anything........slowly when she will become fan of urs then .....reveal urself to her......ok best of luck
2006-10-31 03:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋