i have a crush on my girlfriends friend who also has a boyfriend. i have felt this way for awhile now. i think she would be interested,but then again if shes not and i tell her and she comes back and tells my girlfriend and i lose them both. i dont know what to do. any help?
2006-10-30 17:52:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give it up, it's definitely not worth it. If you act now, you're right, you'll lose everything. Wait it out and see how things go, but it's risky dating an ex's friend, it's against the girl code of conduct. You just don't do it unless you want to lose the friend. Get over it. and quick.
2006-10-30 17:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by A W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I have this right. You want to be with your girlfriend's friend but if it were to go wrong you don't want to lose your girlfriend, is that right? What, you want your cake and eat it too? Are you trying to be a player and just this one and that one for a while till you get what you want then move on but don't want to mess up and be alone? What rock did you crawl from under? If you can't be true to one you aren't worth having. I hope your girlfriend finds out and dumps your sorry butt and tells every girl around. That's just cold.
2006-10-30 18:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by James C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way, I'd dump your girlfriend if you are not really interested. It's not fair to your girlfriend if you are not in the relationship wholeheartedly. She could be out there finding someone that really does like her and not thinking about her friend. If you do dump her and ask her friend, good luck - with both situations. : )
2006-10-30 17:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by mystiepwrs77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend talk to her and ya keep in contact and tell her that you have a gf either get her number but right it on a piece of paper don t put it in your phone if your girlfriend find out you in trouble just hide the paper. even better try get her e mail address.
2006-10-30 19:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always want what we cant have .if you feel this way about the friend you really dont love your girlfriend anyway so why are you worried about losing her to begin with.you need to quit leading her on.and the friend isnt much of a friend if she does feel the same way if that is the case you 2 are meant for one and other
2006-10-30 18:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez! your are really two faced, aren't you? going behind the back of one girl, and trying it on with her mate! You deserve to loose both of them. Don't you? I hope her boyfriend is not bigger than you! Or else you'd better be a dam good runner!!!!!
2006-10-30 19:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes u think she would b interested???
gosh...ur girlfriend is seriously need a new boyfriend & friend...
finish off ur r/ship with ur g/f so that she can find someone else better than u....
2006-10-30 18:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by fallforniky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a reason that youre attracted to your girls friend....all i can tell u is to let your g/f know before you talk to the friend, because you would expect her to tell you if she was into your friend, right? also, you need to be honest to yourself...if it works, great, if not, oh well, move on.....there are other fishes in the sea....good luck.
2006-10-30 17:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with ur girlfriend and then when its over ask ur gf's friend that is if she's not dating anyone.
2006-10-30 17:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her discreetly
2006-10-30 17:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ynot me 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋