My husband and I are adventrous and we enjoy one another and doing different things together. Is toys in the bedroom considered to be a good thing or bad thing? Is this a sin or not? What if I use it without him when he's away? But he has full knowledge everytime I do?
2006-10-30 16:58:14 · 24 answers · asked by Ms. Nee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would they be bad...unless of course you're hitting each other with them. Ha Ha! Whatever works and is agreed on by both of you is a good thing. Enjoy this side of your sex life and stop worrying.
2006-10-30 17:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by lookwid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys are just another way to express yourselves sexually. Nothing wrong with it. While the Pope might tell you it's a sin, he's also got his gang of Priests fondling young boys, while they preach against birth control, so I wouldn't be too worried about the opinions of others. Remember 'judge not' means it's not for others to judge your actions or beliefs. Even if your husband is without full knowledge of what you do while he's away, finding personal release with toys is just fine. Enjoy!
2006-10-30 17:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Not a sin cus you are married. Start out small, simple and cheap. See what you like. Go to a store and ask what they suggest. Just have fun. They are great for getting into the mood and warmed up.
2006-10-30 17:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys in the bedroom are a good thing....yea you can use them with out him. Later on you can tell him about it and he probably will get turned on. Then you can show him how you pleased yourself.
2006-10-30 17:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tickle Me Elmo Extremes are good...especially when they go off at the "right" moment!
Ok, seriously...anything the two of you agree is okay is okay, as long as no one gets hurt, involves a third or fourth party, or animals.
Toys are great! And as for solo action, what either of you do with or without the other's knowledge, is fine and dandy too.
2006-10-30 17:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is a sin using a toy is pleasurable plus it heats up ur sex life I'm sure ur husband would rather have u use a toy instead of going out for the real thang
2006-10-30 17:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by eminem_girl212003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys are great in the bedroom. I have an investment that includes Duracell. Keep those toys vibrating.
2006-10-30 17:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys are great. I prefer cars and trucks, myself. Trains are OK. Make sure the toys you play with are the same kind that your husband likes.
2006-10-30 17:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys are great fun. My wife uses hers with me and alone. Some of the greatest thrills are when she calls me at work while playing alone at home.
2006-10-30 18:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by blackbuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ms...Good for both of you I don't think you have a problem just have fun with him...and your toys...keep it going hot in the bedroom...lots of fun...
2006-10-30 17:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋