a couple of weeks ago i took a pregnancy test cuz i thought i was pregnant, but it came out negative. i've been wanting a baby so bad lately, but i was very relieved to see the negative cuz my boyfriend doesnt want one yet. we're only 17. so i let it go. but today when i went to pee, i felt something come out, and i heard it fall in the toilet. when i looked it was a tiny little pink thing. about an inch long. i started freaking out cuz it looked alot like the pictures of fetuses in my science book. has anyone reading this ever had a miscarriage before? is that what it looks like? could i have had a miscarriage when i didnt even know i was pregnant? please help me. i'm going crazy.
2006-10-30 16:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by qbanita 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
When you miscarriage you bleed alot...worse then your period. Cramps are really bad....the blood is a really bright red. Girl your too young to be having a kid. I am in my early 30's I have 2 boys no help from my ex and it is such a struggle. Go to school get your education because you will need it...trust me!!! I hope this helps.
2006-10-30 16:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you may have but to know for sure you would have to see the doctor but he may not be able to give you a definate answer without seeing what you passed. But If you go to the ER and tell them what happened they will do some blood tests and tell you if you were or not. I would go cuz if you did miscarry you may need to get a D&C if you did not pass all the products of conception cuz you can get an bad infection.
Don't let everyone scare you by telling you that a miscarriage hurts like hell. I just went through it this week and I had no pain at all just some bleeding that wasn't even bad my periods are heavyier than I bled.
2006-10-30 17:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by emtff8017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it was a miscarriage. You'd be in a tremendous amount of pain and would be bleeding a lot. You really should go to a doctor to get this checked out, though- it's the only way you'll ver know.
Please believe me- you don't want to have a baby yet. Babies are wonderful little miracles, but you have absolutely no idea how much they will change your life. You will not be able to do anything- even shower, sleep, go the bathroom- the way you do now. Finish school, go to college, get a good job and some money in your bank account before you start a family. It's a bout a million times harder and more expensive than you can possibly imagine and you deserve to have a life first.
2006-10-30 16:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things can get distorted in the water. If you would have had a miscarriage you would have had pain and bleeding. If you were pregnant how far along would you have been, if only a month, the baby wouldn't have been that big. If you still think that you may have had a miscarriage then go to the doctor and see if they can tell.
And please take your bf's advice, and don't have a baby at this age, your still too young, and have a lot of time to have a baby, why rush. And if you become pregnant and your bf has made it clear he is not ready you may lose him.
2006-10-30 17:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by tnmomof2as 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not when I had a miscarriage it hurt like hell and there was lots of bleeding and cramping. Plus if you were far enough along for the baby to be an inch long youd have really felt the loss! I had one at 6 weeks and the baby was in a sack first of all and I blead alot. The other miscarriage I was 3 mos and the baby also in a sack was bigger didn't look at the baby that time though but it hurt like hell!!!! Youd know if you had one and it would have been in a sack kind of like a big clot. Youd have felt like you had to poop really bad and it wouldn't have come out like what youve seen in school.
2006-10-30 16:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by calvertrangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a miscarriage and i didn't even know i was pregnant at that time and it looked like a blood clot and about an inch long, so its very possible, i would see a doc though. even after u miscarry u can still get a positive test result for a few days at least. but when i miscarried, i was pregnant with twins and i carried the other to term and had a healthy baby girl
2006-10-30 16:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it certainly sounds like you could have had one. Go to a doctor to be sure, because if you did have one you may require aftercare.
I am sorry you are so intent on having a baby at such a young age. Parenting is so much harder than you could ever imagine. Please wait until you are older. You will be so much happier and more competent with some age/experience under your belt.
Go on birth control to prevent pregnancy. Enjoy this time of your life. Wanting to be a mom at your age seems like a lack of something in your life: love, attention, who knows? A baby needs a mom who's not still a child herself (sorry for the lecture, but I am a mom of a teenage girl and wouldn't want her to be focusing on wanting a baby at 15!!).
Try to do well in school, enjoy friends, free time. Becoming a mom will happen in time. But the time isn't now!
Reconsider being sexually active. It involves so much more than just the physical, but is emotionally involving as well you may already know.
2006-10-30 16:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor and get some birth control. You are only 17. You don't need a child yet. You need to finish school first, and get some college education too. If you don't take care of your life first, chances are you'll never get a good job that will pay you well enough to take care of a child and yourself.
2006-10-30 16:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i hope you don't have a baby at 17, it's way harder than you expect it to be.
if you had a miscarriage you would be bleeding, you don't just lose the fetus as it is. i think you need to go on birth control and see a dr to find out what going on.
2006-10-30 16:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mandi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I AM SORRY TO TELL YOU YOU HAD A MISCARRIAGE BECAUSE IT HAPPENED TO ME WHEN I WAS 4 MONTHS AND I WENT TO TO PEE AND THE BABY COME OUT LIKE A FETUS LOOK LIKE. I WANT YOU TO BE STRONG OK. I HOPE IN THE FUTURE YOU PREGNANT OK?
2006-10-30 16:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by LAMUNECA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋