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we were together 10 years and I caught him with women and in the end he just did not hide the fact. We are separated but he has started dating other women and is on internet cheating.

2006-10-30 16:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by cancerian_blue_eyes 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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revenge won't make u feel any better, in fact it will do harm to you in the long run.stop expecting something from him, that he will never give you, like the showing of remorse. ten years is a long time,and you trusted him completely, and i understand the hurt, but it would just be alot easier to move on and do well, that would be the best revenge, to let him see your doing well, not wallowing in self pity, as we sometimes do. don't ever show the hurt, don't give him that much. take back your power by forgiving it, forgiving is not for his benefit, doesn't mean he is off the hook, but it will mean you are off the hook.can't expect someone like him to show remorse or be sorry, you just saw the true him, and it does hurt, to love someone and be with them all those years, and they showed you such disrespect.move on and do well in life inspite of your heartaches. life is filled with heartaches, when we marry or meet someone and fall in love, we can never be sure if he is going to be the prince or the toad, it is a risk but we have to take it, and when it hurts us we move on when we are unable to fix the hurt.

2006-10-30 16:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0 1

If there was a list, there would not be any room left for web sites or whatever.
Men cheat on women and women on men. It hurts like heck. We just have to live one day at a time and get over our anger-hate feelings.
Ok, I moved a hundred miles from my ex because for four years after we separated, he would make me feel guilty so I would take him back. My life began after we moved away from him. Not only did I have to get away, but my children also. It has been ten years and my children are married. Neither has seen their dad since the move. Does that not break your heart.?

2006-10-30 16:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

i have been there and know how you feel . i moved four statesd away . because i had met someone on line that convinced me he loved me . then after being there4 months learned from his friends that i was just one of five girl friends . but i was supposed to feel better . knowing i was the one he stayed with the longest. once a cheater . they seem to think its ok for them to cheat but not you . ken higg was always doing this to me . we'd go somewhere , he'd set in the car on the phone .learned he was flirting with his other girl's .he'd always awnser the phone , would say . you deserve to set and relax and not be bothered with the phone .he'd spend nights on line instead of going to bed with me . then accuse me to sleeping with someone. i could go on about what he did . the final straw was the phone messages i would listen to .if i'd come home for lunch before he got there. the photos i found in the safe or in his desk under papers . finaly i got the phone number's and started calling them , informing them that we were living together . and invited them to come have dinner with us . finaly got tired of his lies and left. have been very happy ever since . i have now bought and paid for a beautifull three bedroom home in the country . no dear i don't have a high paying job . i am a cashier. when you get depressed think of all the lies and hurtfull things he had done to you. then tell yourself . i am better than that and deserve better . i can live without the mistreatment's . set a goal and work till you achive it . if i can do it . you can too. You desreve more than a cheater who wants his cake and ice cream too. the site i think is www. cheaters.com
check it out .

2006-10-30 16:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1 0

usually, id say that there are no longer any 2d possibilities while it contains dishonest in spite of the indisputable fact that it appears like there replaced into ALOT incorrect on your dating and there is an probability that if those issues have been addressed and dealt with he wouldnt do it returned. on a similar time because it incredibly is on no account okay to cheat, people do make errors and study from them. there is likewise a raffle which you will placed years of 'engaged on it' and medical care into this dating in basic terms to be sure that it wasnt the dating that brought about the dishonest however the cheater that brought about the breakdown interior the dating. given which you have 2 babies and that he seems clearly sorry and which you seem leaning in direction of working it out. id supply it a shot yet make effective that the two one in each and every of you're on the comparable website with what needs to alter and how you will circulate approximately it previously you commit to sticking it out with him. additionally undergo in concepts that in case you adult men be sure to circulate forward, you cant throw this returned at him later and on the comparable time he has to nicely known that there will be believe subject concerns and emotional outcomes from his behaviour and which you have each and every genuine to circulate by way of them. terrific of superb fortune. i think of alot of persons stop on thier marriages too actual at present. If he's otherwise a sturdy guy, id say supply it a shot.

2016-10-21 00:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think a bigger issue would be if this person was a pedophile and stalked your kids. But they already have a registry for sex offenders.

I think you need to take some time off, see a therapist, nurse your wounds, and move on. He's made it clear he wants to be free to roam. You can do better. Cut him loose and find a man who wants to only be with you -- there are some out there still.

Good luck.

2006-10-30 16:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 1 0

I would personally go on Google.com and build your own website with cheater ratings for JERKS like that !!!

2006-10-30 16:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1 0

go to www.dontdatehimgirls.com

This site is awesome, plus you can post some pictures of the dude.

2006-10-30 16:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You got issues, let it go already.

2006-10-30 16:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0 1

Start your own.

2006-10-30 16:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0 1

www.dontdatehimgirl.com - he might already be on there!!!!!

2006-10-30 16:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 0 0

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