im kind of insecure to do that- but i just want to know, would u like it? is it sexy? or degrading for a female?
2006-10-30 16:04:07 · 27 answers · asked by wendysmmrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would ,but I have always wanted to be a playboy model!!!
2006-10-30 16:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I have a happy guy and the answer to this question is: it depends. If you're doing it to spice up your love life and you are secure with yourself, then go for it. He'll think it's cool. If, however, you are deeply insecure and do it just to provide visual support for your ongoing barage of questions about other women, don't do it. He'll see right through it.
Buy things that YOU think are hot, things that turn you on. That way, it becomes a kind of exploration of what turns you both on, a vehicle for discussion and trying new things.
Ditch the insecurity. He's with you, right? Confidence is sexy. So is talking about what you like in the BR. Trust me, it'll take your relationship to a whole new level.
2006-10-30 16:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Degrading for a female. I would prefer my wife to wear something sexy and make love with her, rather than watch a bunch of moronic actors banging each other (fake orgasms and all) for the sake of money or women posing and showing bits that should be better off covered.
2006-10-30 16:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hustler is better than Playboy (unless you're buying it just for the articles).. and I buy 'em on occasion for my man and I to enjoy. Who doesn't like to see sexy women(aside from yourself) once in a while??
I know my man likes it and so do I. I've tried to encourage the porn thing (u know, sex and porn same time), but it seems I'm more into it than him..
All the same, he's not complaining!
2006-10-30 16:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one lucky man and your wife is telling you she would like to spice things up in the bedroom!
Receive this hint in the way that it was intended. She must be in love with you or believe me she would not have done this!
What ever you do, DO NOT make her feel like she did something wrong! She would be crushed! It probably took alot of courage for her to get up the nerve to do this! She needs to know that you can be uninhibited. That is what she is asking for. Be glad that she approached you this way. Do not maker her sorry. Let her know that you feel lucky to have such a sexy, fun filled wife! Make sure you make her feel appreciated. Most men would be thrilled to death by a gesture like this. She is giving you a license to play! Show her you like to have fun too!
For goodness sake do not disappoint her.
Good luck and have fun!
Love and Blessings.
lady Trinity~
2006-10-30 16:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got by no potential watched that prepare, yet my husband did used to observe the ladies folk around the corner...I payed a touch greater interest to her although while i replaced into pregnant through fact we've been due quite a few days aside. :) besides the shown fact that, after analyzing your question, i myself agree along with her husband. As a spouse and a mom, i do no longer think of she ought to proceed posing. and additionally, i might by no potential in a million years purchase a mag that my daughter posed nude in and that i think of my husband might in all likelihood do the comparable element as Leah's husband if he ever stumbled in the process a nude photograph of her. I too might by no potential inspire my daughter to pose bare or maybe 0.5 bare for something or to circulate into the grownup entertainment industry. i think of it quite is greater ideal to maintain some secret there and make the adult adult males ask your self rather than enable all of it carry out for each guy or woman to work out...
2016-12-28 08:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to know that porn is addictive. You need to find your security within yourself first. Don't do something just to appease a feeling or to try and get security. You have to know who you really are. Feelings come and go, they are not reality! Do you want your husband to be aroused by anyone or anything other than you?
2006-10-30 16:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by m c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are much more visual than us women - I dont think it is a bad thing and can add spice to your sex life and revitalize your relationship. Most men would be thrilled as **** that their woman was buying them porn!!! Its like the perfect woman to them. . . .
2006-10-30 16:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would question her motives...is she telling me to look elsewhere? does she wants to get pregnant?
If she wants more "action", why doesnt she BE like those gals in Playboy? (Its better than making love to a paper doll.)
2006-10-30 16:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its degrading, for a female and male.
2006-10-30 16:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋