My mother would always tell me, that when I found "the one", it would be beyond anything I could imagine. He would be so gorgeous to me, so perfect, so wonderful that I couldn't even fathom it. I was just like, "yeah right what are YOU talking about?" She told me that I would just know, and she was right. I found that one and I just knew, and even now I can't comprehend how much I love the guy!
2006-10-30 15:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should be very proud of yourself. This does not happen to everyone. Good luck to you and him!
2006-10-30 15:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I found the one. When I was 17 i met this guy where i worked and i fell for him instantly. He was/is great. Even then i knew i had something deep for him and he felt the same way about me. We were young though and his parents were going through a divorce after being married all of his life and it was so hard on him. He moved out of state to live with his older brother and go to school. We kept in touch for a while and eventually for no reason other than being young and easily distracted.
I ended up marrying a guy that I liked after I ended up pregnant. This guy is totally irresponsible and though i love him as a friend, our marriage is pretty much over. I will be filing for divorce soon, like within the week.
About two months after I decided that enough was enough with my husband, i ran into the one again. We saw each other and we both lit up. The problem was that i am married and he was in a serious relationship for about 5 years. That wasabout a month and a half ago, but he has since left the relationship he was in. We are friends and I need a friend. I am aware that i may be doing the wrong thing by being friends with him, but I do love him. He helps me out more than my husband who won't take care of the bills or get the cars fixed. The one takes me back and forth to work so i can provide for my kids and get out. He is good to me. May not have been the story you were looking for, but it is what it is.
2006-10-30 15:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by PRL8268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was divorced for many years. had dated a few but nothing, i finally thought i would and could live my life without that significant other and out of the blue i met the man that i have been with for the past 14 years. when we met it was just like we knew we were meant to be together and we have not spent a day apart since it is just something that is hard to explain. i wish you many happy years together and when and if hard times come just remember them first feelings and work through them it is all worth it. good luck
2006-10-31 06:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
met my soul mate . right after a nasty divorce . steve didn't have to say a word. i could feel his prescents when he 'd walk into any room . reguardless how many people were ther . . my hand's would get sweaty , my heart would beat faster . i would get excited to see him , touch , him . heard his voice and think of him . but steve was a mommys boy and chose his mom over me . i was crushed and still care about him despite all the hurt his family had caused for me in the past . i have never felt that way about anyone else . if i could turn back time i would love another chance at what could have been .
2006-10-30 17:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight. Yes...I had that 29 yrs ago and still going strong....but the story is ...in order to keep your marriage strong, the couple needs to work at it all the time and give each other space. New love is exciting and flawless...wait till you married a couple of years..Marriage is an eye opener, after the blind love/honeymoon. All of a sudden snoring is a problem, mouth odor ticks you off ....ect.
But that what being human is all about...falling in love ....ah
2006-10-30 15:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom always told me the same thing i meet the man of my dreams when i was 17 we always talked about going out but we never did after i was married and divorced and a child later we saw oneanother when i was out at a pay phone calling a guy that i was dating we talked for awhile and started dating ever time he would come around i would get sick and get gas lol
we have been together for 10 years and when we are together i still get sick and get the gas
lol because i no hes the one
2006-10-30 15:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep in mind more than 50% of those who find the "one" end up divorced, it's even higher when ypu marry the "one"at a very young age.
so know this
he is not the "one"
both you and him are fallable and are that\both of you can be replaced in a relationship
we live in a society that no longer values tradition and such being as smitten with you as you are, though wonderful right now eventually that glow wears off and reality sets in. good luck then.
2006-10-30 15:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
nice aint it ?? until it does happen there is just no way to discribe the feeling, no words can paint that picture... they take your breath away... they are your dreams... they are your reality....... they are your heart beat...... etc........ but all that still just does not do it..... I met my husband thru my brother, and the first time I laid eyes on him, I just knew, so I stood him up on our first date.... YUP, I did !!! he scared the bejeebers out of me..... but monday I school I followed him like a puppy dog.. we talked a little, but he was still soooooooo angry, he did not ask me out again, until I tracked him down the next wk end at a dance and practically begged him to dance with me, then he kissed me, and we were BOTH gonners..... rofl....... life is funny, weird, and strange, but WONDERFUL, even 30 yrs later !!!!!! God bless
2006-10-30 15:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! Here's wishing you many happy potties!... lol...I'm still laughing!
2006-10-30 15:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋