im 13 and im pregnant and i dont kno what to do?

Question

im a 13 year old 8th grader and i think im pregnant and im scared and i dont know what to do. i dont want to give it up but i dont want to keep it either and me and the father arnt together anymore and i dont know how to tell him. i dont want people thinking im a tramp cuz im not it just happened i dont even know how it happened it just did.

im a 13 year old 8th grader and i think im pregnant and im scared and i dont know what to do. i dont want to give it up but i dont want to keep it either and me and the father arnt together anymore and i dont know how to tell him. i dont want people thinking im a tramp cuz im not it just happened i dont even know how it happened it just did. there was alot of drinking he was my twin brothers bestfriend so it wasnt like a total stranger and we were dating

Answer 1

Please talk to your parents, a teacher, or a counselor. You need help, and answers on a computer won't do it. You need to talk to an adult and get some help with this. Your parents are the ones that should be talking to you, not us.

Answer 2

If this is a true story, I Hope all the other KIDS that read these sites see what can happen!

The boys are just interested in sex and the girl is No more a tramp than a boy is. He is usually the one that starts the trouble!
Then he wants to leave responsiblity.....shame on him!!!!

I would make sure his family knows and yours. All you can do is apologize to both sets of parents.

See how your parents feel..........if they want to raise it .

It really might be best if you talk to an adoption agency or a lawyer about private adoption. Your expenses would probably be paid. It's a shame we have to learn lessons the hard way. So many get hurt! And it hurts for years to come.

Answer 3

I know you must be scared because you feel grown-up but when faced with something like this you may realize that you are still SO young. I know it may seem impossible to do BUT go to your parents or whatever adult support system you have. Remember no matter what your parents love you. With their guidance your will decide what is best for you.

I do know that there are certain schools for girls who are pregnant and can not attend normal school. This may help with some of your fears on how people will look at you, because let's face it...girls your age can be more than cruel. That is the last thing you need right now. You will not even be showing for quite some time so you will have time to decide what you need to do in order to make this work for you.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

Take a home pregnancy test if your period is more than a few days late. And try to relax, stress can cause your period to be late among other things. There is no poing in freaking out about a "what if"

However, before you have sex again you need to think about what you would do if you became pregnant. Birth control is not 100% You need a plan. Planned Parenthood is a great resource for information, health checkups and birth control and they won't tell your parents.

Answer 5

Before you get too scared, take a test! Try Clear Blue Easy, that's a pretty reliable test to take, but it's best to take it early in the morning when you go pee for the first time, cuz that's when your hormones are most concentrated in your urine.

I do hope for your sake that it comes out negative...I don't mean to offend you or anything, but you are very young. I'm sorry that you chose to have sex at such a young age, and I'm really sorry that you're too young to be responsible about doing it. You made a really bad choice. I hope you will refrain from having sex again until you're much, much older.

Answer 6

Ha! This is why we tell kids not to have sex, darling. Welcome to a nightmare and good luck with it. "Don't want to keep it but don't want to give it up"? Well, then what DO you want to do? Have it and give it up for adoption, at least then the kid would have a shot at a good life.

Oh, and wait until you know you're pregnant before freaking out. If you don't want people thinking you're a tramp, you should've thought about that before you had sex when you were still just a child. For your own sake, I hope you're not pregnant and that next time you'll be WAY more careful with sex. Please talk to an adult who cares about you, it will help.

Answer 7

Tell your mom, tell the baby's daddy, and have the baby and give it up for adoption so that a family that can afford it can take better care of it than a 13 year old who doesnt know what to do.

Answer 8

yo dont know HOW it happened. Honey, you had sex, thats how.
If you cant get a test, tell your school nurse, or even better, confide in your parents.
I hope to god you arent pregnant and i hope the boy wasnt over the age 15 either.

Answer 9

I think you should find out for sure if you are first and if you are I think you should think about adoption because there are couples like me and my husband that can't have children at all and we have been trying to have a baby for 5 years and we would like the chance to know what it would be like to be parents and know what it would feel like to be parents since the only way we can be parents is if we adopt a child since we can never have one of our own. Who knows you could be the ANGEL sent from God to give us the chance at being parents. If you ever need someone to talk to about anything, anything at all don't hesitate to contact me anytime day or night my e-mail is [e-mail] or you can talk to me on Yahoo Messenger my screen name is kitten16_18 you can contact me anytime of the day or night I will be here if you ever need someone to talk to or you need a friend I will be here for you to talk to.

Answer 10

talk to your teacher or counselor if you feel you cant tell your parents, if you do decide to carry it to term there are schools for pregnant girls such as GAP/OPTIONS in victoria, also find out for sure, visit a dr asap. having a baby when you are still young does NOT have to be the end of your education and damning you to poverty, you can still go on, good luck

Answer 11

go to an adult that you can trust. Have them take you to get a pregnancy test and then go from there. If you can and want to keep it then do so and if not then give it up for adoption. There are millions of ppl out there that would love to have a little one.