Me and 4 other guys that are all my "friends" are being so mean to me and I don't know why also some people who are not really my friends. No one wants to be my partner in four square or many other sports. After school on like Fridays they never invite me to the mall then a sleepover. IT's hard for me to make new friends in school because I have a really bad reputation for what I did last year everyone thinks I am gay when I am not. And they think I did stuff I did not. One of my other friends starts rumors about me how I am weak and can't lift a 12 lb weight. When I can!!!!!! It is so annoying and all my other friends are scared of him so they agree with him! Any ideas on how to get some more girls to like me and make everyone like me and be my partner in fur square and other sports? PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-10-30 15:04:56 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ [þæ] ツ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi! I use to have this problem too when I was in high school. The only thing you must do, even though it is going to be hard, is try and not care what other people think. When your young one minute your best friend is your enemy and then everyone hate you and picking on you, calling you names and stuff. This is what happened to me, I had no one and everyone picked on me alot!! You have to ignore and have confidence in yourself. Do defend yourself, but in a smart way! The people who are different in life go it through the hardest and at the end of the day, end up winning. Be strong and always be yourself. I know you feel alone but trust me, you will make friends, true friends. In all honesty, people really dont have many friends, theyre just aquaintances. Do what you like doing. Enjoy life and you will meet people who will have the same interests as you. Just ignore those idiots, their not worth stressing about-and you know it! Be strong and be happy-its a state of mind!
2006-10-30 15:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you are this age and not acting if you are i know this is a hard time for but you will get through it i did and so did alot of people i know i don't know how you feel but i did go through it stay as far away from them and if they say you are gay tell them the only way they would know that is if there were the person you were with. that will shut them up it worked for me by the way the girl that told every body iwas she is now talk to some one about this if just to get it off your shoulders and yes you will find friend just be your self. good luck
2006-10-30 15:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those people are not friends. Dump the whole bunch of them. Find some club or activity after school hours that you would like to be part of and make new friends. We all make mistakes and we all pay for them. But, if you try to be a better person (it takes a lot of work), you will make better friends.
Good luck
2006-10-30 15:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have the "what people think" syndrome. You need to find your center. So your not gay and if you were that is your business. People that are so shallow to not accept you for you forget them you don't need shallow people in your life anyway. I suggest you join a youth group through FNL. get involved in some activity that brings you happiness, treat others the way you want to be treated regardless of their problem. I repeat "their" problem. If someone "IS" gay that is the way they are made. Like if you were HISPANIC, BLACK, ASIAN, you get the idea. This prejudice toward you could be a good cry to get involved in stopping this for others even if you are not gay. Be strong be "YOU" and love him....because "GOD" loves you and made you wonderful.
2006-10-30 15:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋