How much blood ?
How painful is it? compare it with som other pain..
Is it gonna be painful the whole way through or jst the beginning?
I heard first times r lk hell, lol scared.
2006-10-30 14:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Take a calm down. : ) My first time I didn't bleed at all, or not so much that it was noticed. I only noticed when I wiped after going to the bathroom. I wasn't really the most comfortable experience, but it does most certainly get better after that first time. Most importantly BE SAFE!!!
2006-10-30 14:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by miaalyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to discover the amount of blood you could be losing or how much pain you could be in; you really must understand and know what a hymen is. So here it is...
Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It’s a mucous membrane that is part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It’s located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. You may or may not have one, most females do. The hymen is not an indicator of virginity; a girl is a virgin until she has been penetrated by a penis.
The hymen is named after the Greek God Hymenaeus - the God of marriage and weddings, FYI.
During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina at all. The thin layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth, forming the hymen. The size and shape of this opening (or openings) varies greatly from person to person.
Sometimes this formation of an opening does not occur, resulting in an imperforated hymen (it lacks the more common opening). Some females have no hymen at birth at all, since the tissue divided completely while they were still in the womb.
Many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.*
Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
I'm not a Doctor... I'm just a Corpsman...
2006-10-30 22:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Whispers of the Winds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bleed. But it did hurt for awhile. The pain does go away and sex does get better. Just make sure your doing it with someone who loves you. The pain of a broken heart hurts far worse than the physical pain.
2006-10-30 22:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bleed but some girls do. I've been told it looks like you were spotting from your period. Pain comparison? Hmmm...stubbing your baby toe, hard. It only hurt for a minute, not the whole way through.
Only have sex when your good and ready. (preferably with someone you love like your long time boyfriend or husband)
2006-10-30 22:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bled a whole hell of alot when i first had sex, but that doesnt mean you will. It hurt like hell. I really dont think that you can compare it with anything unless you regurally stick things in yourself. It doesnt hurt the whole way through just at the start when he first enters.
2006-10-30 23:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by prettygirl_angel2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women bled, some don;t. The pain intensity is relative. Just relax and enjoy the intimacy. Take it slow for the first time and make sure it is safe if you do not intend to get pregnant.
2006-10-30 23:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by nonema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women bleed, some dont. Sometimes it's painful, sometimes it isn't. It just depends on your body and how it reacts.
2006-10-30 22:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Timeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is different for all, but I was lucky..first he was quite small, about enough blood to leave a handprint and that was it and no pain...good luck
2006-10-30 23:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurt me a little i didnt bleed
2006-10-30 22:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Keya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be afraid......Be very afraid!
And please,.......make sure you use protection from preg. and sexual diseases......unless you want your coochie to rot off.
2006-10-30 22:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋