A lot of people don't understand me even my friend which she probably thinks she does understands me. i have a lot of drama in my life and to me its mostly sad. Most of my family members don't understand me eigther.
2006-10-30 14:18:49 · 11 answers · asked by Evelyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to God
2006-10-30 14:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are judging people in your life too harshly. Of course they can't understand you the way you understand yourself. If you want more understanding from people around you need to
1. learn to understand yourself and why you are you.
2. learn to understand others on your terms
3. show people how to understand you, give them some help.
I'll take a wild guess that you're pretty young, don't let yourself get lonely in a crowd of drama and dramatic people. Find someone special and don't expect everything so perfect. Look for the good you have in your life and just enjoy it. You're only lonely if you choose to be. Good luck!
2006-10-30 22:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlypreppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling lonely because you are not satisfied with your current situation. Find someone that will listen to you and let you vent and get everything off of your chest. Find a way of relieving the drama so you can get away from it. Get involved with other things to take your mind off of what you can't control. Find something that works for you. Eventually things will take a positive turn.
2006-10-30 22:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by ardeth75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you might be suffering from depression. You can only let someone understand you only when u let them. Do you understand yourself in the first place. You are not alone. At least you have your family and friends. Open yourself up to them. Who knows what may happen. God bless.
2006-10-31 11:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way, I lost all my friends, I only have one good friend and she said that nothing in this world would make her leave my side as a friend. I just think you need to talk to your friends and family about what is bothering you or even about your life. It would make you feel better and it would probably make you feel alot better.
2006-10-30 22:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by jessicaball2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI....
DONT BE SO SAD,,,
WHY DONT U BELIEVE THAT OTHER PERSON UNDERSTANDS U,,,,,,i.e A KIND OF LOOSING TRUST,,,,,,
SAME PROBLEM I HAD,, ONE OF MY MAIL FRIEND ALSO SAYS THE SAME THAT SHE DOES NOT UNDERSTAND,,,,
GIVE THE TIME TO UNDERSTAND ,,,,, COZ OTHER PERSON MAY HAVE SOME PROBLEM
2006-10-30 22:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hitesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a chaos junkie is hard to understand,unless you are one so slow down and as long as you understand yourself
2006-10-30 22:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by deb m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is the drama? and maybe they have support groups online or in person that can help you.
2006-10-30 22:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sweet Girl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up! you have lots of blessings! count your blessing and you will feel better! enjoy self! go out have fun with friends! okay :)
2006-10-30 22:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered talking to a therapist?
2006-10-30 22:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write me sometime if you'd like and we can talk about it... yahoo messenger jh_2626
2006-10-31 01:13:01 · answer #11 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋