Ok this is so embarssing! So I am a 19 year old girl who is trying hard to wait till marriage before having sex but I dont know if that is going to happen. My question is, when masterbating I can't stick anything past a certain point and it is driving me crazy. I try to push it in more but it is not doing anything. Now if I were to buy something like a vibrator and try to break through would that cause me any problems? Is it bad I can't stick anything past a certain point?
2006-10-30 14:15:04 · 6 answers · asked by The_Morbid_One 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That's your hymen. It's a very valuable commodity in some cultures.
You could break it yourself with a vibrator. It might bleed a tiny bit and hurt just a little. It seems like a total waste to me.
Better plan: You could save it for your future spouse. He would probably love to break it for you but again....it might bleed and hurt just a little. This could complicate your first sexual experience. But I suspect that as long as you know what's happening and you understand the pain is fleeting, it shouldn't be too traumatic for you.
I admire you very much for holding onto you virginity. Why make it questionable at this point? I recommend keeping your hymen intact. It's a very valuable gift to give to your husband on your wedding night.
2006-10-30 14:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ayliann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're experiencing is totally regularly occurring. some women persons locate masturbating effortless, yet for plenty it does not come easily (excuse the pun). accomplishing orgasm via any potential has no longer something to do with no remember in case you're a virgin and each thing to do with adventure and prepare. And for a great style of ladies persons it does not ensue till they are plenty plenty older. in case you have been 35 and asserting you weren't waiting to have one, then it would be time to ask a doctor for suggestion. As for technique, everyone does it slightly in any different case. The clitoris is so delicate that unquestionably touching that's uncomfortable; you're able to get greater desirable effects from in basic terms rubbing the encompassing section. you ought to use your arms, a comfortable textile/towel, or a vibrator, which you're able to purchase on line, at a "toy" keep, or in some pharmacies. relaxing will help. additionally, continually remember that the exterior interior the vaginal section is skinny and fragile; that's easily annoyed so be mushy, do no longer use gadgets on it that don't belong there, and confirm that something coming in touch with that's sparkling.
2016-10-03 03:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, vibrators are the best, but I wouldn't bother trying to stick it in. Just hold it against the clitoris (hope they don't censure that) and you'll be on your way to happy land in no time. :-)
I'd just be careful that anything you try to stick in there is sterilized, because you're a virgin and you could cause bleeding. Don't ever try to stick anything in further than you can comfortably.
2006-10-30 14:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its good, if you want to remain like a virgin(tight) you better not put anything up yourself anyways. the best kind of masterbation is to put something that vibrates on your clit(the sensetive part on the outside of your um "area") not very many girl get off from penetration, your best bet is to watch a porn and play around the outside and when you feel a 'twang of excitement" tense your legs up and it might send you over the edge. worked for me anyways
2006-10-30 14:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, i obviously cant answer this question as well as the girls. but i must say, i am happy to hear of a young lady that is still a virgin and (hats off to you) waiting for 'the right moment' to lose her virginity and hopefully it will be to someone that appreciates it and loves you. i 'hear' the clit. is a great place to make a girl have an orgasm.
2006-10-30 14:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by leslie b 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad. It could be that you are tense and not letting it get past that point....like when you first use a tampon? you are contracting your muscle and tightening it up....let go and see if you get past that point....I don't think you will cause any problems if you are just curious about it.
2006-10-30 14:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋