i have this friend that yells and calls me and my other friend names . what do i do ?
2006-10-30 14:06:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let your friend know how you feel. If that person does not change there attitude than they do not care for you.
2006-10-30 14:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Linda Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs a friend like that? Is she doing it to be mean? Is she saying mean things? What do your other friends say about it?
If she's just a loud person who thinks calling names is funny and really doesn't mean anything by it, then you may just need to confront her on it and let her know that it's only funny if others share in the joke, which nobody is.
If she's just being a b*tch, then why continue to hang around her and call her a friend? A friend wouldn't do that to you if she considered you to be the same. I wouldn't want to be around someone that talked to me that way, and neither would my other friends---but there, they have to make up their own minds on whether or not to still hang with her.
2006-10-30 14:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she does say something, stand up to yourself and say; why do i bother with someone as pathetic as you. And walk away. Trust me, it works. Sure you will feel odd after, but you will be so proud of yourself a day or two down the track. Will make you a stronger person too. You will look back and remember the day you stood up to yourself and smile so hard. Don't wait around for her to talk to you or you to suck up to her, move on and find a real friend. Good luck!
2006-10-30 14:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by 100% TOP NOTCH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about honestly. If she tries to change you might want to keep her as a friend, but if not it may be time to let the friendship die. Or just tell you are not going to continue to be friends with someone that doesn't offer the same respect you give them.
2006-10-30 14:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... look friend up in the dictionary... it doesn't say someone that calls you and other people names... put up the hand when she does this and walk off... put her in her place... she is a freak and needs to learn some manners... she better becareful... she may end up gettin her a**ss kicked... I wouldn't even bother with trying to talk to her about it... this is probably how she is talk to at home...
2006-10-30 14:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a back bone and quit being her friend. If you stick around for much longer you will get what you deserve. You dictate how people treat you and if you are allowing her to do this and being passive...you deserve it. This is only a sign of what's to come with future boyfriends too...
2006-10-30 14:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't like it when she calls you names. Ask her to stop. I'd give her a chance to change. If she doesn't, consider spending time with other friends.
2006-10-30 14:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dealing with her, because if she was your friend she wouldn't call you out your name. Also let her know that you don't appreciate the name calling.
2006-10-30 14:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by s_reneeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl can't be your friend if she does things like that. You should tell her to cut it out, and if she doesn't, don't be her friend anymore. Hey, you'll always find other friends out there.
2006-10-30 14:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately not a friend. sounds more like a bully or a control freak.
2006-10-30 14:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋