Since a few months ago I started enjoying spanking as a submissive. I enjoy very much being spanked in my bare butt with ruber sandals, belts or whips until I can't stand it any more and start crying like a baby and begging for mercy.
I myself am very comfortable with this lifestyle and do not see anything wrong with that but my sister learned about my spanking habits and became tottaly agaist it stating that this is for mentally ill persons and that I should seek psyquiatric help. I got a little bit shaken by her comments and would like an opinion.
Is it normal for a young woman to enjoy a lot being spanked really hard in the bare butt?
Thanks in advance for the answers
2006-10-30 13:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are an open minded woman who adores adventure. There is nothing wrong with your lifestyle - it is yours to choose. Perhaps, though, it is best not to share too many details with your sister.
Enjoy life!
2006-10-30 14:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Woman Spanked Hard
2016-11-04 06:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry - lots of women love being spanked, often very hard and even to tears. Is it 'normal'? Who can define 'normal'? At most it's just a little kinky, and there's nothing wrong with that. A touch of kinkiness can make for a great sex-life.
So if you enjoy it, go right ahead. Your sister is either rather naive, or narrow-minded.
2006-10-30 22:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
not to the point of crying but I think that if you want to be spanked then nobody should stop you in being spanked. I think its fine to get spanked on your bare butt. Sounds like fun for you
2006-10-30 13:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by will987456 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A few "spanks" between lovers is one thing...
You indicate you like "belts and whips,"...that is a bit concerning for me. However, if you don't think it is affecting your life negatively,...continue on and enjoy. I just pray you are not submitting to this to keep some guy around who is getting off on hitting you. These types of situations can get out of whack pretty easily.
At any rate, if you enjoy it,..go for it..and keep your love life private if you don't want to hear the concerns of others; especially your sister.
2006-10-30 14:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Let me save you some time & money in the advice dept. I also was worried about a similar problem years ago & I paid thousands to get the advice of a therapist, then another & then 3 others. In the end, I was actually LESS confused on the issue of spanking & MORE confused on the issues with abuse in my childhood. I knew about the physical & psychological abuse from my parents, but it never occured to me that I had sexual abuse issues burried in my past that I had repressed & finally resorted to hypnosis to relive the whole childhood ordeal of my abuse. Even after 3 years of therapy, I spent another 5 years acting out in unhealthy relationships & putting myself in harms way. It took another 5 years on top of that for me to reach my "bottom" or "breaking point" in order to get over my need to relive the spankings from my childhood & confusion issues. When I resolved some issues mentally, I stumbled upon a sexual partner whom I could trust I we spent 2 years doing things that I cannot believe were humanly possible. There were drugs & multiple partners & near death experiences that I lived through & this all helped me to heal from my childhood trauma. I loved it, but my friends disowned me when they found out. Why? Because they also came from backgrounds of abuse & alcoholism & they chose not to deal with their issues in the same way that I did. They dealt with their issues by working more & I dropped out & now I am getting back into life & they have dropped out with alcohol, drugs, & affairs. The only difference is that they are now too old to enjoy themselves & get anything from counseling & I can see their pain. Perhaps your sister isn't ready to deal with some of her pain. Just a thought! Sex & pain can be very powerful tools in our lives & those memories stay with us forever! As long as you are happy, it isn't anyone's business what you do with your body. Just know that there is a fine line that isn't always easy to walk on. Some things SHOULD be kept a secret, but once they are known, you don't have to play into being a "victim". You can just refuse to discuss the subject & accept the fact that your sister is a different person with opposing views!
2006-10-30 14:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Ive known many women who enjoy this.
2006-10-30 13:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by CDog 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for masochist females, all you need is a sadist boyfriend.
2006-10-30 14:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by igɳo★ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋