Definition of Love :
Everyone defines love as being the "butterflies" or the obsessive feeling of constant thoughts of their other. Why does it have to be the rapeful kiss, or the groping touch? Why can't it be the protective arm around the waist, or the kiss ontop of your head? Everyone percieves love as that rush of "good feelings" you get every single day, but its not. It's a committment you work toward, give your all for. You can wake up everyday loving that person and accepting who they are, but if you honestly are just doing it because thats what people do in relationships...don't go -through- with it. If you're not willing to hear and LISTEN to that person, understand and advise them, comfort and console them...why bother? Love for me isn't kissing under the stars and it doesnt take a week to build. Love for me is the feeling I can be -me- with that person no matter, differences and similarities. I'm not judged nor critisized for who I am or who I want to be, but loved because my dreams and goals are admired by my love. Love for me is knowing no matter what, anger or none, that my significant other will be there. It's the spontaneous affection and persistant feeling of protection I get, and the reassuring words to satisfy my emotional needs. It's having the courage to say "we'll make it", and even more having the determination to go through with it. It's the devotion and consideration for each other's lives and feelings. It's knowing and trusting that no matter what, he will try just as hard as you to stand together whenever you fall together. Love is honesty and loyalty, now ask yourself again...do you have love? No second thoughts.
i wrote that alonmg time ago.
that is love.
2006-10-30 13:50:08
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answered by .t.y.l.y.n.<3 1
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absolutely and its the best feeling in the world and every day it gets better and I feel more wonderful. We have been really close for a very long time and we have been there for each other through a lot of things. And I guess what I've learned after 7 years is that love is not a feeling and that I always dont feel in love. But I am. And during the times when things are difficult and I dont feel like compromising, I think of how far we've come and what we can accomplish together and I know that I can find a way to do it. And then there are times when I feel like I can do it on my own and then I remember that sometimes on my own is not all its cracked up to be, and I know that after awhile on my own is no fun and I would miss the hell out of what I had. So you see everyone says that after 7 years everything will fall apart, like Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillipe today....but I know that if you keep working you can accomplish STAYING TOGETHER and though you may not feel in love you are in love. Being in love requires work and patience and dilligence and compromise and Great Sex....mix it together...LOVE
2006-10-30 14:43:24
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answered by shanstew 3
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Life
2006-10-30 13:46:30
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answered by JustJane 6
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No, I'm married. Just kidding. I think. Or am I? I don't know anymore. I guess when she gets home tonight I'll find out depending on how she acts. If it's screaming and bi***ing then no. If a miracle happens and she is actually nice then maybe. Now I'm depressed. Thanks
2006-10-30 13:54:36
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answered by jbsim75 3
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Yeah
2006-10-30 13:53:44
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answered by JayHawk 5
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Not in love with anyone or anything. Its what i love though.
2006-10-30 14:07:57
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answered by X-Woman 5
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Yea
2006-10-30 14:07:00
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answered by Slim 5
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love my friends like a sister but i wish i could find a boy hwo loves me for me and is very loyal
2006-10-30 14:51:57
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answered by j 4
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yes, with my husband, love: warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion. love is loving someone even when they make it hard to love them.
2006-10-30 13:50:37
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answered by Mommie 2
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yes, with everything in life...especially my fiance Derek (aka Caco)
2006-10-30 13:47:34
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answered by TrixR4KidZ 5
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