We've been friends for a long time. But now i'm have strange feelings for him. should i tell him or leave it alone.
2006-10-30 13:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by spongy923 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How serious a relationship? This is much more important a question for women than men. (More to risk, more to lose.)
But realizing you're in love with somebody who has been a friend for a long time has been the start of a number of happy and enduring "relationships".
2006-10-30 13:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation, I think that getting it off your chest instead of wondering may help, especially before another girl gets him. You never know he may be thinking the same thing. But be careful you don't want to push him into a corner and force him to say yes because he is your friend and does not want to hurt your feelings, feel him out give him some hints here and there, just wait and see how he reacts to it. Also, sometimes in situations like this, it he may just be better as a friend, and not as a boyfriend, but optimistically he might act the same or even better towards you!!!!!
Good luck!!!!!
2006-10-30 21:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i look at it this way.... if you guys have been friends for a really long time well then maybe dont tell him! but i guess it all depends on the feelings your having... like if your in love with him or its just a crush. but if your in love tell him if its just a crush dont because it might end up that you guys arent as close as friends because you feel awkward around each other! but sometimes if your in love with your best friend the best thing is to tell them! remember this best friends make the best relationships!
2006-10-30 21:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I have been in this situation before, and i started to be attracted to him and it felt weird at first but you have to go for it ,Being friends before a relationship is a HUGE reason for it to last and to be better, you already know eachother as good friends now you can try dating !
2006-10-30 21:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by felicityhuffmanlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do it. friendship is something that you should treasure especially if it as wonderful as it could be. if you take the steps to get in to a relationship then your friendship will be messed up and god forbid that the relationship does not work out then your friendship is over because it could never go back to the way it was
2006-10-30 21:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT bit about the bush..be clear and tell what u feel,am sure he will respond positively cause he too might be having the need for u.Good Luck baby
2006-10-30 22:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think its the right time to be with him tell him if not let it be you dont want to ruin a friendship for a relationship. i had the same prob. but me and him neva went out b\c itll ruin our friendship
2006-10-30 21:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Marixa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
if he feels the same
best friends make the best partners
2006-10-30 21:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it want work
2006-10-30 21:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋