alright ma friend jess was pregnent 5mouths to be excact any wayz over the weeked the baby was born mad primature and died 10 minutes after birth she hasnt come to skool seince and when she does how im a suppose to act should i mention her baby our act like there isnt anything wrong???
2006-10-30 13:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
having gone through a miscarriage i can tell you the best thing for you to do is to not push the subject. just tell her you are there for her is she needs to talk. she is goign through a VERY hard time right now and she needs people to be there for her. she will likely be upset and angry abou twhat happened so if she seems a little short with you just understand she is going through a lot right now.
2006-10-30 13:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by DanielleNichole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your feelings on not knowing what to do or say. Tell her that you will talk about it if she wants to, or if she doesn't that you won't say a word, but you are there if she needs you. She knows the terrible thing that she's been through so mentioning it briefly just to let her know that you don't know how to handle it with her shouldn't bother her.
2006-10-30 13:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just act like nothing is wrong. If i waz her I wouldn't want any one to talk to me about it .I would be pretty sad.
2006-10-30 13:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should chill out! in basic terms sit down, make your self snug and think of! in basic terms think of! what ever is bothering you will artwork out the way you like it to! i promise calm dow i little bit sturdy good fortune which incorporate your problems!!!
2016-10-21 00:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just suport her act nice and dont mention the baby only if she mentions it
2006-10-30 13:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act careing
2006-10-30 13:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by ando ciompa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put your arm around her, & tell her how sorry you are, & you are there for her if she wants to talk.
2006-10-30 13:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope avoid it. let her bring it up whenever she is ready to talk about it. it would just remind her and she might not want to be reminded.
2006-10-30 13:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋