I dont know what to do (boyfriend issues)?

Question

I love my boyfriend..But we just dont click like we used to!! I want to break up with him but i dont want to!! Im in 7th and hes in 8th i need help!!

Celina
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Answer 1

i know exactly how u feel. im in 11th grade, but obviously i went thru 7th and 8th and i watched these things happen and succeed all around me. now, just be warned fairly....ive seen them fail too, its ok. its a hard subject (love) but im more than happy to share whatever advise i can dig up. ok, first off, you ARE a little young, but i hated when ppl told me that so i wont say it anymore lol. do u think/know if he loves u more than u love him? if he does, dont break up with him just yet....take a step back....tell him u just wanna settle things down and step back for a little while. tell him ur HONEST feelings, dont lie, lying NEVER solves anything. id know, ive lied my fair share....and i learned that lesson the hard way. i dont mind lettin u use my failures to help u succeed though. ok, now if he doesnt love u as much, thats a different story (i think). i think in this case, u can TRY taking a step back, but usually when a guy goes thru this kinda thing, he MIGHT (i am NOT saying he will, only he MIGHT) start to become desperite or "wanting" and start to like somebody else. he may come back he may not, its hard to say. i mean, all the advise ive given has been in person cuz id see it happening, see him get frustrated and her run off crying and grab both of em and help them....but online i have to imagine it, and that can sometimes be hard since love NEVER takes the same road twice with any couple. i emailed u, just in case u wanted more adivse which id b happy to give, but heres my email:

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for u or anybody else who may wanna ask me for advise. ive been thru alot personally and by observing in the hallways of school and town even tho im only 16. ill think more about this and email u or come back to this question later. love takes thought, but the best thing(s) i can tell u now is: first off, to take ur time theres no rush or race, take it slow and think things thru....and secondly, hang in there. when things get rough or hard, DONT GIVE UP, u dont no wat u could be throwing away. and in the end, if it doesnt work between u two yes, its sad, but keep ur head high, life goes on, and dont EVER forget, there over 8 billion people in the world, theres 1 out there for everybody. dont ever stop ur search, cuz the one for u is searching, dont leave them hanging! theyre out there! it just takes a little faith! good luck! ill try and stay in touch! if we dont talk again, i really hope i helped at least A LITTLE bit, and i hope things work out for u i really do.

Answer 2

I love teen agers . i have a teenage daughter . In the 7th and 8th grade ,she'd have a boy friend and then break up with him,he'd get mad , or not. and the funny thing is, when she became around 16, she'd have the same boyfriends all over again . Her opinion and mine is that settleing for one boy is more practical later in life. But I think that when you don't know what to do, don't do anything . It'll become clearer what to do as the days go by . And who knows, maybe you two will click again.

Answer 3

hy hons gay boyfriends daviie and steeviie, if thios so called boyfriend isent what you want out of your young life then learn one thing as you get older okay and remeber this okay-- you pick and chose whom you willl eventually share a life with kids a bed and a future okay so the next time you find a boyfriend hons--- and listen good okay-- dont make the same mistake over againn, and hopefuly you will find a boy who is on yoour level okay hey thats life---

Answer 4

if u feel like u don't click anymore tell him u just wanna take a break and think it out i am in 7th grade too and i was going through the same sittuation and i told him i wanted a break and i thought about our relationship and it all worked out fine
ps follow ur heart =]

Answer 5

Honey, your in 7th grade? Why are you bothering to wait around. You have got so many years to meet new boys. Don't stick with this one just cause you think you are good now. When he goes to high school next year he is going to dump you anyway. Trust me you are better off not pining and saying you "love" someone when you are that young.

Answer 6

Try talking to him before you make any decision. If no one's willing to work this out, things will just get worse. He might come up with some sort of solution, never know! I hope things will get better for you! Take care.

Answer 7

You already know what you have to do so get the courage and do it. You have to live with the end result so you decide chicky babe.

Answer 8

ask him what is the problem and y u dont click like you used to, try to solve the problem

Answer 9

talk to him about it.
and if that doesn't work
theres plenty of fish in the sea.
especially when you're only in seventh
grade. =]

Answer 10

just talk to him and be honest about your feelings.... i think he will be thankful for that..... what's the point of still dating him if there's no more "click"??? maybe he feels the same way ....