It seems to me every instance in life is a chance to help someone or hurt them. Why do so many people choose to tear people down instead of building them up?
2006-10-30 13:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by John C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Because its easier to hate than it is to love. Loving means you actually have to put forth the effort to put someone before yourself. Humans are selfish and self absorbed for the most part and the effort it takes to to view everyone else as no different and no better than yourself takes time and hard work.
Fear is soul crippling, and intolerance, ignorance and hate are born out of fear.
Risk love.
2006-10-30 14:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wonder this too, and you see it a lot here. If it isn't to make them feel horrible enough, I see people making very rude remarks about their spelling, grammar, "stupid" questions......I wish I knew what makes some people not care so much.......or be so rude. I guess this is used as an outlet for anger and frustration for some...so maybe they are the ones that need to ask more questions?
2006-10-30 13:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking of my late partner's vile family. They hated us because we were gay. They showed utter contempt for their daughter when she died and as a result, nearly destroyed me as well.
If I could understand what drives these people I think I would put up a sign like Lucy's
" The psychiatrist is in "*
Chin up, as my brother would say, "The bastards will not win in the end."
Faith and love, Rose P.
2006-10-30 14:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's bad in this section go on the religious section. That is where you should be asking this question. I have never seen so much hate and anger as I do there...but your right, there is to much hate...
2006-10-30 13:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what these people are used to. They're so used to receiving hate from almost everbody in their immediate society that it becomes innate for them to spread all this hate around. Sad, but true.
2006-10-30 13:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because it makes them feel better about their self. Its as simple as the school bully, he picks on the smart kid because isn't smart. It isn't fair but it is what it is
2006-10-30 13:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think because the speakers don't like themselves very much and/or feel inferior...and so they should.
2006-10-30 14:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because hatred is easier to express...love is so so special that it's sometimes kept secret....pity
2006-10-30 13:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by yahoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they are insecure and by talking down it makes them feel better about themselves.
2006-10-30 13:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
because they dont believe being gay is as great as you think it is.
2006-10-30 13:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋