ive had this one friend for 2 years and i found out that he was gay not long ago and he doesnt know that i know.........but he doesnt act like he is at all....what should i do?
2006-10-30 13:08:15 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
uhhh... hello?
if he's your friend, then act like it and still be his friend. his sexual preference is something personal and in my opinion a private matter, it shouldn't affect friendships.
2006-10-30 13:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by leafy_c2i2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does his being "gay" have to do with what kind of person he is? He is exactly the same person 2 minutes before you found out he was gay as he is 2 minutes after. A friend is a friend and I dont know about you, but I do not have enough of them. Continue to treat him as a friend. .
2006-10-30 13:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play it off i have a friend that all the girls liked but he was gay as long as he doesnt try and come on to u or just ask him straight up cuz that might just be a rumor alot of ppl use gay as an expression not a real meaning u might have heard wrong
2006-10-30 13:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually.. I have.. When i was a Sr in high school i was dating this guy for almost a year.. then we broke up and the next thing i knew he said that he was gay. He is know in a very happy and im happy for him to.. Hes got himself a great guy and if he is happy then I am happy to.. By the way.. we are still really great friends.. so waht if your friend is gay... hes still a person..
2006-10-30 13:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Heather O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a true friend you will except him for who he is not what he is NOT. He has not told you so why should anything change My old School friend told me he was gay Me and Him do most of The Same thing we are still friends and that is all that matters. I have Excepted him for what he Is. Not what he is Not
2006-10-30 13:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is acting gay? Is that like acting mexican lol, He was born that way, he's not acting sweetie. He is gay always has been since before your friendship it's just now that you found out, not now he turned gay. Support him, He obvously isn't that comfortable disclosing his sexuality to the world yet. Just be what you say that you are "A FRIEND".
2006-10-30 13:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He was gay 2 years ago, the only thing that has changed is you knowing about it. If he hasn't hit on you by now, he must really value your friendship.
2006-10-30 13:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mimiat41 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would be shocked considering this is my best friend, I should have suspected it. Then I would be very happy for her and supportive. Don't bring this up to your friend until he is ready to come out. He is probably having a hard enough time trying to face who he really is.
2006-10-30 13:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be rude, but if you are his true friend it shouldn't be such a big deal. Although I can see it being strange and some what awkward after finding out. Talk to him openly and try not to have your tounge talk for you, but your head and your heart. I have been through this before. Trust me, it works.
2006-10-30 13:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by chynna cat sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive whenever he feels ready to tell you. Just don't go on a rant to him or others that he is gay. That is completely uncool. For now, be happy that you're friends.
2006-10-30 13:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by breakingcharlotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my best girlfriend was gay I'd sleep with her if it were a guy I wouldn't do anything different than what I do now.
2006-10-30 13:18:15 · answer #11 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋